Im sick of people making excuses for the person in our friend group she even makes excuses for herself and when it ticks me off people wanna act like im the bad guy which prob am but she has Aspergers which is a milder form of what i have yet im not sitting there making excuses for my actions and no one does for me either in fact people expect too much out of me which is exhausting so yea there is my rant

bump

You could try to tell her how you feel, when you two are alone. That way you can get your point across to her with no one else butting in.