I have a boyfriend and we've been together for more than a month. Its a long distance relationship. We talk everyday and things are very very smooth.Today, he sent me a post on instagram. It says "uninterested girlfriend". I thought he was teasing me for a bit but he wasn't. I told him that I'm sorry if I'm not good enough. He told me that he loves me and that I'm everything to him. He does tease me about other girls and im starting to wonder if he actually does love me. I'm scared to ask him and we're taking some time off for a while... I miss him to bits but I'm not sure if he feels the same... What should I do?..

Although I know his feelings are important to you, as they should be, you should still put your feelings first. Long distance is hard, I've been in a long distance relationship for two years due to my enlistment in the Army, and sometimes we bit a slump.

You need to take the time to sit down and think about how much your boyfriend means to you. If you feel he is worth it, fight for him. Each slump you get through will make the relationship stronger, trust me.

I agree with Oryolin, you should go for his advice at most.

I've been in a LDR because of my studies abroad and I agree with Oryolin as well.

Once you've thought about him being worth it, you should make extra effort to hang out* with him the best you can.

*The only way to hang out in LDR's from my experience are gaming, skyping, calls, etc etc.

Hope it works out. LDR's are a huge work, but a huge pay off too. I also suggest confronting him about how he feels, it will at the very least reassure you, and give you a better grasp of where the relationship is heading.

Stay safe! ♥

>>5 The people approving of the post above really have to be insecure about themselves if they're serious

Find yourself a new man, if he puts you through this much grief dump him. If you stay with him your gonna get hurt, I mean you don't have to but I would

If you ask him seriously to stop teasing and he does not take it seriously, he is not taking you seriously. Honestly, I'm not sure how "uninterested girlfriend" becomes "you are everything to me."

If you seriously still like him, stick around for a bit longer, but be prepared to cut yourself away if and when you feel like he is too much to deal with.

Thank you everyone ♥♥♥