I don't have much advice to give but as a trans guy... please don't do what
>>6 said and wear a binder for that reason. Binders aren't just for trans people and plenty of cis people wear them too, but to pretend to be flat for some guy you'll probably get over in a few months is not a good idea.
Binders, while the safest current option to appear flat without surgery, is still very risky and can cause permanent damage if you're not careful. From your wording, you probably have a large chest, so your risk is even higher than mine.
That said, I do agree with points 1 & 3 that
>>6 made.