so mine boyfriend now ex I had dated wasn't at great person even when I still had something with him he was like a gangster type and saying things like this "it so easy to kill you and your family I will let you watch when I kill them'' and I was like he is just joking..We broke up with a huge and awful fight..he didn't contact me anymore until 9 months later.. He literally said "Do you like those black cars driving around lately'' I was confused first but then It got worse He has been stalking me since that but not him in person but his followers are stalking me and he is making death threats to me weekly..so I suddenly got called daily from a unknow caller it went on for 3 weeks always on the same time on 10:30AM or 04:00Pm each day then I knew one of his people has gotten my number from him after that it was like one call in every 3 days for the past 2 weeks and that has finally stopped but he is still making those awful threats and I how happy I would like to go to the police I can't because of him and I just don't know on a legally way to get rid of him.


Please help If you have a ideas

I'm not entirely sure I understand why you say you can't go to the police but honestly, you should call the police or at least try. Even if stalking is not considered illegal where you live, he has been harassing you and sending death threats to you. Which I'm pretty sure is considered illegal. You could try recording a few of their calls, if they start again, it might help you convince the police about how serious the problem is.

Another thing, I'm not entirely sure if it's true and it does seem extreme but try keeping a "status quo" with him. By that, I mean try avoiding being alone but at the same time, don't ignore his calls and all that. If he gets angry, he might act out.

Right now he seems to be feeding off that fear, and to him it feels good. As long as he has that to feed on, he probably won't escalate. So don't change any of your habits concerning this problem until the police has him.

Also, check out how restraining orders work. That might help, but I do not know how it works, so again, try to check out how it works where you live.

Now, I'm not a professional in that field, so I do suggest that you try doing a bit of research on your own on how to cope with this since a lot of factors that I'm not aware of might affect your situation. But I do urge you to avoid being alone, and to call the police.

Sorry if this scared you, that is not my objective.
Good luck with this.

Thank you but the problem is he has a big history in underworld and also with the police...He threats also my family and the cops here are just lazy brainless losers who can't do there stuff right (sorry for my words).

And If I get called there is no voice at the other side so I can't record anything. I will look into the restraining order Thank you.

I know where he stays and comes often so I can avoid that for now but calling the cops is like a death wish for me.

But thank you very much for helping

Where do you live? Im part of the Dollars and will take stand against such actions as this. If you want help, let me know where you live and the only catch is. You have to pay for my trip to come over if its a bit far from where I live.

If I knew where you were I could maybe help, but honestly I couldn't see that happening where I live.

>>4 We're all part of the Dollars. This is an online group. Do not do dangerous or unsavoury things in the name of this group.

But isn't that what dollars are about, to help out our members, It's more dangerous if we don't help.

If someone wants to help someone under the name of dollars I’d say do it.

The best thing to do is call the police, we aren't a gang we cant just rock up and get rid of the guy, Yes we are the dollars but if this guy is an actual gangster then there is not a lot we can do

3 words “witness protection program” if he is that dangerous that going to the police is a bad choice, go with wpp.

Definitely file a restraining order