Hi, I just wanted to start off to say that I am beleievably the worst person I know. That I’ve been that way for a while and now I just want to love myself because I know it will be nearly impossible to find others to. I guess I’ve always struggled with anxiety and lack of confidence. For a while I was fine because I was around new people so I could pretend easier. But around those who are close its hard to be and inspiration when I’m just pretending to be confident. I don’t know I just feel like I don’t have any redeeming traits.

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So, the best thing to do is to go out more and try socialise. If you can’t find New people to socialise with join a social club. Doing this will force you into a situation where you will have to fight your anxiety. If you do this enough you will loose the social anxieties you may already be having.