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What should i do (8)

1 Name: Anonymous : 2018-06-24 10:08 ID:f1/9Dx2S [Del]

I'm a 23 years old man and a full time employee at my company. i have a problem with my mom that keeps nagging me all the time, she's told me to find a better job that gives more money and try to give her 50% of my salary to her. the thing is, she's owe a debt on me for about 800 USD(in my local currency this is a big amount). by she's asking 50% of my salary yet keeps missing her promise to pay me on the date she's promised me, makes me angry inside, should i be angry and reminds her about it or else? i don't know what to do, i just wish she would realise what she said and not forgetting her duty.

2 Name: Guidance : 2018-06-24 18:25 ID:Bm7SrL+D [Del]

Honestly You are in a tricky situation.

There’s two ways I see that you can tackle this;

First of all you could do as she says and keep a positive relationship with her.

The second could be risky, you could tell her that you won’t pay her until you get the $800 that she owes you. Doing this could cause a unstable and unhappy relationship or, she could be understanding.

Another way to tackle this is by telling her you like your job and, you don’t feel the need to get a new job, and you enjoy the job that you’re doing at the moment.

You should think everything through, before doing anything.

3 Name: Anonymous : 2018-06-24 21:32 ID:CGHMoOrf [Del]

Thanks for your advice, The second choice indeed can be risky, as far as i did, i just talk to her last night that i don't like to find a new work. i love my current job as it gives enough freedom for me, but as i expected, she won't listen to me and just want me to find more money.
i do only hope that she would realise what she's been doing.

4 Name: Guidance : 2018-06-25 17:21 ID:Bm7SrL+D [Del]

No problem.

5 Name: I need someone to talk to : 2018-07-04 17:02 ID:XevykvxP [Del]

Today at work I was sent home because I was not needed. Shortl after I came home from work Ipassed out and hit my head on my coffee table. I was out for a little bit, i called my boyfriend and told him what happened. I started feeling sleepy and kept trying to wake me up i woke up. He couldn't loook at me and just simply said "You scare me sometimes."
He walked away and is the shower now........I didnt mean to scare him....andi don't want to lose him i love him.

6 Name: Someone to talk to : 2018-07-04 17:35 ID:vaLhAIw4 [Del]

Your over reacting, you won’t loose him. If you feel that you will loose him due to Scaring him, tell him how you feel. The best thing you can do is tell him that you are scared you will loose him due to you scaring him. He’ll tell you that you won’t loose him over it. He’s simply worried for you, if he didn’t care about you he would not have been scared by the situation. He cares for you, it’s only natural that something like that, would scare him.

7 Name: Someone to talk to : 2018-07-04 17:38 ID:vaLhAIw4 [Del]

Let me tell you, when my girlfriend broke down and told me she was scared that she would loose me it made our relationship stronger. In fact I think I love her more because of it.

8 Name: Izaya Gaten : 2018-07-05 15:15 ID:OxSmYayA [Del]

The gril just need to throw some tandrums (cry) and thats it, your friend will be clinky trust me, well i coulndt care a dimrbif a girl called a river on me,