1 Name: Soda : 2018-05-02 20:27 ID:jqAObE/e [Del]
My friend has been really attention-seeking lately and making up issues so people will be concerned. And I know she's making them up. She said she went to the doctors and that he told her she was super depressed, but I asked her mother, and she said she hadn't even been to the doctors that month! I’m just-- I’m so tired of it! She messages me saying, “How was your day? Mine was good, but I’m super depressed.” Those things don’t f***ing correlate! I know you’re “depressed” other than the fact you have NO symptoms and avoid clear questions when I ask them, but this is ridiculous! You make big deals out of nothing and expect everyone to feel sorry for you! "my phone is going to die, siiiiiiiiiiiigh" and "I had a good day at school except I was super depressed all day." You might not notice it, but you are pushing me away due to this, and I actually don’t care
2 Name: Alimo : 2018-05-02 22:04 ID:qBRky/CH [Del]
she wants the attention, let her have it, she'll see how she's ruining her life, and then will come back to you, or your realize she is a jerk and you need a better friend then her. but please don't, this girl your talking about does need help so please do be nice as it fixes itself out
3 Name: ImYourFriend : 2018-05-04 00:16 ID:9MBK/3e5 [Del]
We all have that someone :")
I wont say 'give her the attention she needs and see how it goes' cuz everyone'll suggest it somehow.
Anyhoe, you should probably start on why she wants attention. Back at home, i was raised with 2 sisters and me being the middle child. My mother focused on my sisters, as the oldest get a good education and youngest getting the most love.
I got used to it, but anyhoe, I still got friends. I opened up to them (when they asked why i was acting weird) and eh, thye understood me.
somehow.
But everyone lies for a reason. Maybe she;s just jealous of how good looking you are *wiggles finger at you*
but ima advice you to proceed carefully. your relationship can be beyond saving if somehow someone intrudes.
But my advice is, stay calm. Everyone had this phase on one point of their life.
I didnt expect the "super depressed" thing lmao. If someone has depression, its serious. Don't joke around with depression. Some people commit suicide because of it. But ey, it's kind-of understandable that people who really needs attention would actually use that.
Anyhoe, dollars has your support :D
