Okay, so when it comes to having a girlfriend or boyfriend, it's better to have the same kind of interests as them, right? So, from there, if you were an artist or author, and it was your main interest, would that mean that it would make sense to pair up with someone with a similar interest? Like a girl-boy writer-artist pairing (or two writers/two artists, or similar pairings).

Firstly, is this even a good idea? The concept of dating and having a bf/gf is quite alien to me, since I don't like the idea of just moving from one person to the next all the time (I'd rather just find 'the one' and leave it at that), but is it bad to pair up with someone who would be your main partner when it comes to stories and projects you would work on?

Secondly, how much of a requirement would you say it would be, to have someone with a creative interest in a similar world to yours? It's just that as someone who feels like I'll be creating stories/art as my main interest and focus, it doesn't feel right to have a bf/gf who isn't as interested, and doesn't complement me in that way. Maybe I'm wrong?

Third/Fourth. Does anyone else think this way? And where/how would this even begin? I don't know why, but over time I've created this picture in my mind, this idea of my perfect person being an artist/writer so that they are also my partner in the stories and art I/we will create. It's gotten to the point where I don't really take much interest or even consider people who wouldn't be able to fulfill such a role, and I'm wondering if this is bad.

Thoughts?

There must be as much conflict with as little destruction as possible.

The relationship found atop common interest, to last must possess common morality or meta-morality. The relationship which is absent commonality excluding that, foils the logic of common interest.

>>2 too deep. and please use common words, not everyone talks like you.

>>1 I personally think that its better to have at least one common interest when it comes to having a relationship with someone, and being both of you inclined to creating stories/novel/or even manga/manhwa is even better.

Pros:
You get to enjoy each other's company
You always have something to talk about

Cons:
You'll get bored of each other
One of you might dominate each other as to which plot goes better with the story because you have different opinion in mind (esp if you're the writer)

(I almost had a relationship with someone but his tastes and hobbies are too different from mine and its hard getting comfortable with each other. So its still better that you have at least one thing in common.)

every relationship differs but its up to the two of you of how you're gonna tolerate each other.