There is a guy at my school that has been causing me many problems, and he keeps coming back and causing problems. Last year he snapped at me for disagreeing with him and calling him out on things like threatening me and intimidating me into saying what he wanted. Then He liked the girl i liked, who is my girlfriend now, and back then he tried to bring me down to push himself up, and make himself look almost saint-like and then i backed down at the time. Then this year starts and about halfway into the school year, he snaps at me on the bus, saying how she said she wouldn't date me in a million years and how he heard it himself, that i worship nintendo like some kind of god, that i'm childish, that i watch anime and read manga and that i'd never amount to anything and die alone and worthless. I got that on audio recording and went to guidance about that and they did nothing but talk to him. Then he went over to her house, and shot a bow and arrow with her in the back yard THE SAME DAY that all that happened. I texted her about it, but she didn't see it all until after he left. After a day or two he goes over again and she tells him off, telling him that he's horrible and that I'm a thousand times better than he will ever be and told him to leave. Then recently his mom wanted me to take a picture of him and his current gf kissing because i told her they do and they aren't supposed to so i take the pic and then my friend is pressured and threatened by the guy to tell who it was, and he ends up spilling because he disagreed with my decision to take the pic. Later that day I get called down to the guidance counselor's office and asked why i took the picture, i explain everything, and then they let me go back to class. When i get off the bus that day he says that he knows what i did, and that if he so much as hears someone saying i'm doing it again, even if i'm not, that he would "bash my teeth into the fucking ground" and then said how i could get sent to prison for taking the picture and i told him that no i couldn't because it's legal to take photos in a public place, and he said it is still illegal to post them, and i told him in never posted them and then he said he saw me post them during lunch even though he never even knew about it until after. this was all on the 13th. the photo stuff at least. then yesterday on valentine's day his gf asked me why i took them and i said someone wanted proof. then she said that i could go to jail for it. im really angry with myself because i didn't bring up the fact that paparazzi exist. Then she asked who i was going to send it to and i said his mom and then she asked who told me to and i didn't tell her it was his mom. I just want outside opinions as to what i should do. This is the third or fourth time he has threatened me and I am tired of him being how he is. Let me know what you think I should do. A reply is appreciated. Thanks!

I think you shouldn't worry about it much cause you did the right thing by letting his mother know. But hoenstly speaking I think you shouldn't interfere further with him if possible. Don't let him earn more reasons to ruin your life. Don't worry much about him and just try to keep yourself and your girl away from him. Endure whatever is left for you to finish school, and good luck! Overall I think you did well by taking the pictures for his mother because I feel like she would be immensely worried about him and would want to know what he's doing and all of that. So other than that please be well. I wish you guys nothing but happiness and well being.

So the problem is that I've tried to cut him out of my life in the past, but my girlfriend isn't able to cut people out. She doesn't have many people to begin with. A friend of mine thinks she's cheating on me with the guy, and i disagree. She thinks she's cheating on me because she's good friends with his sister, and he liked her at one point. I know she isn't the kind of person to cheat on me. She also thinks that because yesterday he was super calm. She said that when a man is enraged there is very little that a woman can do to stop him. She said that she thinks she bribed him with her body and now i have so much anxiety about the whole situation to the point where if she's right I'm not going to continue. I waited for a year until I could ask her to be my girlfriend, so I doubt what my friend said. Also my friend has predicted and foresaw shit that happened way in advance. I've listened to her about everything in the past, but for once I'm following my thoughts and letting my heart think. If anyone has anything to say yet again I'm all ears.

Have a condition that your girlfriend stop seeing him, or you don't know if you two will work out. There is too many red flags and there is no reason why she should still be hanging out with him. I know I don't really hang out with people my girlfriend can't stand and vice versa.

If she still continues to hang out with him then she is just adding fuel to his behavior. He gets jealous and it is added by her spending time with him. He needs to get it into his head that she isn't interested in him. Yet his behavior does exhibit that there might be something more going on between them. Maybe not sexual, but she might have a thing for him too.

It's good to trust your gut feelings too, I neglected those and ignored the red flags. If I trusted my gut then I would have acknowledged and acted upon those red flags before things got worse, for me that is.

I thank you for this suggestion, but I know she doesn't like him like that. They rarely ever talk or hang out so that's a good sign. I know that she never will do that too me and the last string of posts is starting to become void. She told me if he tries anything she won't side with him. Thanks you for your advice.