I've become known to my friends online as a notorious 'flirt' but I cant seem to act the same way in real life. I'm too shy to talk to boys and it's really hard. Its much easier to flirt and talk online and I need some advice to help me not be as shy in real life!

make up some Scenario inside your head and stand in front a mirror and make a fake conv and ways to respond to it.

act normal in real life and avoid flirting because someone would think you would flirt with him because you like him (from my view of point) try and read people face when they talk and hand movement , its a skill you gain just like how you would know how is someone feeling in their text messages.

real life talk is hard but its something you need to learn in a way or another.

try to talk with a friend in real life first to help you , or talk to family member in normal way.

good luck with that and send me an email if you need more help and advice EasternDollars@gmail.com

^Thank you bby ;-; I'll try my best

Matter of fact Dj weebz, I'm the same.. online I'm a total Hugh Hefner type of guy and could steal the hearts of thousands of girls. However in real it's not exactly shyness.. but more like suddenly losing interest in girls entirely. No I'm not bisexual, I'm straight.. but I'm wondering myself how I could easily make a girl fall inlove with me online, yet in real I can't/can't bother.


The answer is simple : Online, it makes things easier, in real.. people get to see the real you, your flaws, anything else they can critizice on. My advice babes, is just to teach yourself a mentality of '' I don't care, I'll just do it if it feels right!'' and eventually you'll talk to guys as if you knew them for years.


At least, that's how it helped me to talk to girls in real as well, however not in a flirty way, but more of a supportive best friend way. :) If you feel like asking about me, or experiences I've had regarding this. You can email me at zekeasakura.dollar@gmail.com :) cheers <3