Hi... so I’m a high schooler who is a girl. My classmate who I don’t really talk too has given out my social media to this guy to try and hook him up with me. And yes I like him he’s nice and sweet but the thing is I think I really like girls (like super sure) but I’m still “in the closet.” Per se... it’s been 3 days and this guy has become super obsessive and I haven’t even met him in person yet. He’s like planning for us to go to the same college and get married but he has told me he has anger issues that he says he doesn’t care to do anything about. Multiple times he threatened to harm people’s he’s known on the first time we talked on the phone and he said he attempted to harm(choke) his own mother. He’s always had a past where he used to treat girls like crap but he says he’s changed from that. He said if I did anything rude that he’d get his revenge I guess. He seems sweet and all but I’m not interested. I need to focus on my studies and honestly I really doubt I like guys. He has this whole future planned out for this relationship. Idk if I’m over thinking it but I’m scared. I’m afraid if I tell him that I like the same sex he might go tell my classmates that he knows and I don’t want to be outed. Because of his whole revenge thingy. It’s only been several days since he texted me for the first time and it’s non stop from there... what should I do? My family and friends say I should just ignore him but I don’t want the risk of being outed. Please help!

Even if you are straight or wouldn't be good to hook up/be with this person. They seem very manipulative and you barely know another. There is multiple red flags a d he hasn't changes, as he threatened you already. Even if it was a girl it would be a bad idea to keep talking to this person.

Either ignore and block their number or tell them you have no feelings for them. If they persist and end up stalking you a restraining order probably will be needed.