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So many problems (28)

1 Name: Lionhurt : 2018-01-11 03:37 ID:GwvzQgVf [Del]

Hey guys, I feel so depressed again. I don't know what to do. First of all there is this one girl I really like, but when I talk to her she doesn't talk back to me. She never makes eye contact and when I say Hi she always ignores me. Do you think she loves me but is too shy to confess her love for me? Should I confess first and see what she does? It could be like in an anime or a movie and we will be a happy couple in the future with kids, a house and a beautiful garden. What do you think?
There is also my friend he is so cool and nothing like me. Every girl likes him and he has many friends, but he likes to hang out with me. I am so afraid that he's only my friend out of pity, or because he looks much cooler when he is with someone very uncool like me. I'm afraid that he could just drop me one day when he finds someone who is uglier than me. I don't want to be alone.
I feel so depressed. I think I'm going to kill myself. I can't live like this any longer...

2 Name: Namie : 2018-01-11 06:31 ID:yTPDl1sX [Del]

It's time to hang up your worries and yourself.

3 Name: Gaten : 2018-01-11 06:34 ID:lkb/Axbj [Del]

Why compare with others, most people are superficial as fuck and arent really real its just there to gez by you know? Ones xpu realise that yout far better of

4 Name: Chronos !OLodFucK0U : 2018-01-11 08:23 ID:sxdVxXAn [Del]

>>3 Dude, you should learn to type correctly, these spelling errors make my eyes bleed.

5 Name: Theo : 2018-01-11 08:40 ID:DS849K0c [Del]

Hey! About your friend, I think you should trust him. No one is spending their time with people they do not like. I think you should talk with him and tell him your worries. And about that girl, there is a possibility that she likes you, but if she does not you do not have to be depressed. One day you will find the perfect girl for you and will live a beautiful life.
And if you and that girl are not meant to be, maybe a better girl is waiting for your meeting.

6 Name: Tree !N13m0ewMrQ!!pay7Ps22 : 2018-01-11 10:04 ID:ZKZMCeMl [Del]

Honestly, you sound like your young and probably still in school to me mate. It's an interesting time full of emotions. If you're not in school, well here's some advice anyway.

I would say that thinking that far into a relationship that hasn't even started yet might be part of what's 'causing you to worry. I'd say confess to her, but if you are already feeling depressed about it, it might not work out. Confess to her anyway though or else you'll never know. And if she rejects you, that's also a good thing because you'll learn how to cope with rejection.

That friend of yours that you think is your friend out of pity, you'll never really know unless you confront him about it. Even if it is a friendship out of pity, do you appreciate it? Yes? then let it be. No? Then try to move on and make yourself happy, you don't need anybody else to be your own person.

I had a period in highschool, freshman year, where I was a loner for six months and I had no friends. I hated it, but at the same time, I put myself into that situation because I abandoned all of my friends from middle school and they went to a different highschool than me. Eventually the principal took my loner corner and I felt forced to make friends. I ended up hanging out with a group of five people until the end of highschool and it was honestly a good experience, but... Since highschool ended I have only ever talked to any of them maybe once or twice. And I also have no friends again, or, it's more like I view friendships differently. A good thing about this period of adulthood is that I have been getting closer to my family, which I think is nice.
good luck with your situation OP.

7 Name: Sid!MYwXno9Hgc : 2018-01-11 10:47 ID:Y0ZlVKvU [Del]

Can't tell if they're being serious or trolling now? What happened to changing your flaws you don't like?

We all gave you solid advice for your problems. No one can hold your hand in life, you gotta do it yourself.

If you want the advice you are asking for re-read your earlier posts. I'm lazy and don't feel like repeating myself. That probably goes for others too.

>>6 they claim to be in their 20's.

8 Name: Namie : 2018-01-11 14:27 ID:EdJ0pfmp [Del]

>>5
>No one is spending their time with people they do not like

This is one of the most ridiculously naive things I've ever read on here lmao

9 Name: G.P. !K6N517zljo : 2018-01-12 00:45 ID:5+Mqxven [Del]

>>8 But isn't it true? When you don't like somebody you don't spend time with them, or?

10 Name: Namie : 2018-01-12 03:48 ID:EdJ0pfmp [Del]

>>9 Do you like all of your co-workers? Do you like all of your peers at School? Probably not, but you have to spend time with them and possibly work with them regardless.

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12 Name: Lionheart : 2018-01-13 19:48 ID:blzOmSwc [Del]

Nice troll attempt. I got a good laugh out of this.
Btw my depression has improved significantly to the point where I rarely feel it anymore. I'm focusing on myself and myself alone.

13 Name: Chronos !OLodFucK0U : 2018-01-16 01:05 ID:SWXBiaCH [Del]

>>12 Please take other people's problems seriously and stop making fun of them.

14 Name: Namie : 2018-01-16 01:32 ID:8TjPj/ed [Del]

>>13 Some people honestly have no tact, bragging about how great they are on a thread where someone is just having a real hard time 😔

15 Name: Aleister : 2018-01-16 18:50 ID:8HUWwW14 [Del]

Problems are there to spice up life.. And we are made to solve them, that's why we have a brain, for us to think of ways to overcome them. If people wouldn't have problems, then it's just being alive but not really living..

If you're thinking of killing yourself then you were not made for this.

16 Name: Jo : 2018-01-16 20:44 ID:rvr1Ol7Y (Image: 736x736 jpg, 213 kb) [Del]

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>>1
Dont. Dont do it. Think about the people who you like and those who like you back. When you die, you dont stop the pain, you just make more for others, especially the people who actually care about you.
"When you die, you disappear. The pain you feel doesn't, though. Only your being." -Izaya Orihara

You should confess to the girl you like. If she doesnt feel the same, move on. Dont ruin your life forlorn about someone who doesnt like you back. Dont just survive, LIVE, because:

17 Name: Jo : 2018-01-16 20:47 ID:rvr1Ol7Y [Del]

>>16 The world isn't as bad as you think.-Celty

18 Name: Kial : 2018-01-17 11:24 ID:SsiaGKRF [Del]

Dude... we're like, parallel brothers or something because I am in the EXACT same situation as you. I would look for those that actually DO care about you, for those people are what you can really call friends.

19 Name: Lionheart : 2018-01-20 19:13 ID:Bbz/C3Q2 [Del]

>>12 >>13 this guy literally posted the same problems as me and even ysed almost the exact same name.

Now if you aren't a troll, focus on yourself. Honestly I was, and still kind of am, in that same funk and after focusing on myself it became better. Just worry about yourself and your family.

20 Name: Shiro !SHirOszFlY : 2018-01-20 22:04 ID:aN0rbpwK [Del]

>>19 i suggest getting a tripcode to avoid being impersonated

21 Name: Maimai : 2018-01-21 01:15 ID:88R5xDWP [Del]

>>19 why do you think you are impresonated? other ppl could have the same problms too, right? and they use similar names or the same name, right? you have paranoia when you think somebody impersonates you. dollars dont do these thinks. it is forbidden to impersonate others or you will be banned. this is the rule baka (-_-)"

22 Name: Shiro !SHirOszFlY : 2018-01-21 01:37 ID:aN0rbpwK [Del]

>>21 bro, lianheart isnt a common name unless yore in the godamn warrior cats fandom. This post is obviously to mock him.

Also youre a hypocrite, youve impersonated me and many others before.

23 Name: Maimai : 2018-01-21 01:49 ID:88R5xDWP [Del]

>>22 shhhh dont betray me

i am in the warriorcats fandom (^w^) hehe

24 Name: Namie : 2018-01-21 03:18 ID:AaGjyOFL [Del]

>>22
>lianheart isn't a common name
But Lionheart is.

25 Name: Shiro !SHirOszFlY : 2018-01-21 07:44 ID:aN0rbpwK [Del]

>>24 namie you know it was like 7am when i wrote that please

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27 Name: Aria : 2018-01-21 08:24 ID:Hv2RKW7o [Del]

Hey Lionhurt,

If the girl ignores you, consider she's not interested. Friendship is an illusion. In the end, people will always choose their family instead of their friends, so friendship does just not exist. Sorry for being so cold but that's just reality, even though it's sad. Once you understand that, you will live your life freely

28 Name: Namie : 2018-01-22 13:13 ID:AaGjyOFL [Del]

>>25 I know I'm just pulling your leg 😇