Hey guys. So I decided that, even though I'm depressed, to just pretend to be happy and confident. And I actually feel better now. Not great, but much better than before. There is this girl at my job who I have a bit of a crush on but she has a boyfriend. However, lately she has been giving me weird signals. She talks to me all the time when we are at the same station and she actually keeps the conversation going rather than me trying to. She also makes direct eye contact with me nearly all the time (besides when a customer needs help, etc.) and when she does talk to me, she usually stands very close to me, nearly touching me. She asks me questions and even when she doesn't she finds random things to talk about.
The biggest thing though it touching. She has touched my chest, back, and arms a few times and smiles at me whenever we see each other. She also stuck her tongue out at me like twice.
Maybe she likes to just flirt? I don't see nor hear from anyone else of her doing this to them. And she did mention to me that she has a boyfriend, but very briefly.
Is she being friendly or flirty with me? Or she, at the very least, curious about me?

>she actually keeps the conversation going rather than me trying to
>She also makes direct eye contact with me nearly all the time
>She asks me questions and even when she doesn't she finds random things to talk about.
>She has touched my chest, back, and arms a few times and smiles at me whenever we see each other. She also stuck her tongue out at me like twice.

Wow, it sounds almost like she's a person that's been well socialised, is friendly, and isn't an introvert....do those exist?

I've been thinking the same thing Namie. Well said.

So I read too much into it? Figures...

>>4 Not only this, you're even imagining a non-existent type of girls.

>>5 what do you mean?

>>6 the girl you met doesnt exist and you are crazy?

All you said just means you like them. You could say f it and confess/ask her out on a date.

You could always ask how she's doing with her boyfriend to see if she would even consider dating someone else

From this you know more of the type of person you are attracted to at least.

To me it sounds like your being played by ur crush. Don't let the joke be on you! Ask her why she is flirting with you when she already has a boyfriend, and if she actually wants you or just likes toying with people.

>>9 I don't see it as flirting though, she just seems to be a very extroverted person.

>>9 But she's clearly not flirting you sperg.

How do I respond to this? Do I just bluntly ask or kind of slow play it?

>>12 Don't do anything.
She's most likely not interested in you, that's probably just the way she behaves.
Just try not to look like a fool in the end.

Personally I'd say she's just being friendly hut personally I also don't like doubting and being suspicious of this kind of stuff 'cause personally I don't know how to take hints, so personally I would just put it out there bluntly.
Be like, "Hey, person I know, Tell it to me straight, do you have a crush on me or, are you just like really extroverted? 'cause I can't tell, lol?"
And then if they slap you across the face you have your definitive answer that they were not flirting with you at all, but in the end it'll be worth it instead of living the rest of your life never knowing.

>>12 What is there to respond to lol?

>>13 well respond to those touches and stuff she does to me.

What I said in >>8.

There are people who hug strangers and whatnot, they're just very extroverted.

I think she's only being friendly with you. Don't make illusion to yourself (sorry dude)

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