So, I'm in high school in a stupid place called New Jersey. I hate it here. Blah Blah Blah. Anyways, This kid who've I had been friends with for about a month made a love confession and asked if I wanted to be his girlfriend. at the time I thought he was joking for two reasons; 1: He told everyone he was gay. 2: We'd only really know each other for about a month. We had met twice in that amount of time.
Then he started telling people we were dating. i was really confused and a few days later I had realized what happened. now, I don't want to 'break up' with him because I don't want to lose a good friend when I already have so few. I don't know what to do, so here I am. I can't ask my parents cause theyd get pissed. I don't even think I want to date someone for another while. Maybe not even until after college. I just want some friends and not more broken hearts. Ive seen what breaking up between couples and saying "Oh, we can still be friends" does to people so I don't want to take that route. Please help me.

2: This all happened in the middle of me questioning my sexuality so, here I am. Please help. Thank-you!

To be fair this guy sounds fairly weird, do you really want to be “friends” with your gay boyfriend who you’re not dating? Evaluate that, if you don’t, then break up with him, tell him the truth, better to tell him sooner than later, so an impression doesn’t last. If you do want to remain friends, go with the basic “I’m just not ready for a relationship, but I want to still be your friend” line. Regardless, this guy sounds like a total creep, and I don’t know how much that says about you if you still want to be around him.

First of all is this a serious question?
I mean, the answer is pretty obvious, isn't it?
You wouldn't lose a "good friend" after a breakup, for someone you've only met two times within one month can't actually be called a "good friend", that guy's an acquaintance only, if at all.
In case he's actually gay, just tell him to fuck off, you're the one looking like an idiot when you're dating a gay guy who's probably just playing with you.
He's not your boyfriend, he's not your friend, so why are you even asking whether you should break up with him or not?!

>>3 nononononono chronos the question is not obvious. they could be online friends they dont need to meet to be friends. your rude arguments loses its strength now. and the gay can be bisexual so he can love the girl but also be gay so your second argument loses also his strenght. and now please stop to troll personal you are very annoyung. dont give bad advice!

Tell him how you really feel and if he can't accept it than he isn't a good friend.

>>5
>the gay can be bisexual
Lol

I suggest breaking it off with him in a polite way? If you feel that youre not ready for a realtionship the one youre in will go down the drain. Maybe try to connect with him more or learn about them a bit more?

>>5
>the question is not obvious
WTF are you talking about?
I said the answer to the question was obvious, idiot, please read carefully before you respond with bullshit.

However, is annoyung the new singer of SHINee?

>>9 use better english i cant understand what you type. and dont ask other questions in this thread that doesnt belong here. use google when you want to know something about kpop.

>>10 maimai please stop. Chronos gave the answer in a nice way.

He either is gay and trying to figure out if he really is by using you. Or he's putting on this farce to try and get into your pants.

On the note of dating, there is a lot more to dating someone than just saying you are. By your definition I'm married since my best friend jokes around saying we are, due to the lease and a Costco card having only room for spouse lol. We're both straight too and he already is married and I'm dating someone else lol. I've known him for about 15 years too.

Leading to the point chronos pointed out, is you can't claim they are friends when you barely know each other. If he's your friend then all the clerks at a convenience store, next to my job, are my friends. I've met them multiple times, but I don't know them at all.

Personally I think you should just tell it to him straight. Confront him about the rumors he's been spreading. Tell him that if he wants to be your boyfriend he can't go telling everyone he's gay or that you 2 are already dating. Be honest with yourself and if you want him and make sure he is honest as well.

>i need to use better english people cant understand what i type.
Fixed it for you, my little Maimai.