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I think I should give up (9)

1 Name: Ruppo : 2017-12-07 15:26 ID:N6Rgk/es [Del]

Yes love problems, I know you guys are sick of these but just hear me out and if you want you could give a little advise. Okay so I like this girl, but it's not like we're very close. More like just classmates, she insists that we are friends but I really couldn't thought of it because I don't talk to her much. She's more of like a party goer kind of type, has strict parents, and actually flirty. Unlike me who doesn't really enjoy much company, of course I go out with my friends for a drink but I never really felt crowds are my thing. There are moments when we actually talk to each other, she appears to like literature and is part of the school press. Once I submitted a story for the school press, they were holding up a contest and if someone won they would publish it, surprisingly she said that I won and she saw that my work was already in the printing stages. So with writing as our topic, we actually held up a few minutes of talking about what kind of work I do, how she was surprised that a guy like me write romance novels, how tired she was at her school press, and all trivial things. I shared about watching pewdiepie and how hilarous he is, and she liked him and said that she would laugh out loud at his videos, she even said that she dreamt about him in her sleep. But that's just about it, in school sometimes I would not talk to her, because I'm quite scared.

Actually we seldom see each other because we have different subjects, and just a few we are classmates at. I try to message her on fb, but when I do, she instantly logs out. I don't know if it's a coincidence or intentional but I would message her about 10 pm - 12 pm, now only my messages are stacked and I feel embarassed to message her anymore. Well, the only place we could actually talk is when we see each other personally. Well, unlike fb, she would take notice and we would converse with no problems, I would often instinctively pat her in the head or bumps my fist into her shoulder. Once she took notice of my battered ID holder, because I never really thought of replacing it because of the hassle, she said that she has a spare ID holder and would give it to me (I'm now wearing it). I think I'm walking to the path of friendzone honestly, because I ignore her way too much and I never really gave my good points (and never chatted with her anymore). She actually has many admirers that are way out of my league, and I thought that they have way more have chances than I. So I brush of the feeling of affection towards her, and ignores her more. I'm just a plain looking guy with glasses after all, well she wears glasses after all, and I consider her my glasses-companion haha. because we're the only ones having glasses in the class.

2 Name: Tree !N13m0ewMrQ : 2017-12-07 16:03 ID:DFu2ugmY [Del]

Dude! I'd give you a long piece of advice, but I don't have the time right now... so... Just ask her out already! Ask her to go to starbucks with you or something else simple. Tell her how you feel dude. If you're not the one and she lets you know, move on. You can stay friends afterwards,but don't be afraid to pursue a relationship with someone else.

3 Name: Unknown : 2017-12-08 18:08 ID:WY6M+mRv [Del]

if it was me I would have gave up a long time ago just stay friends are for now and I'm usually of the guy who never gives up on love so this is hard for me and I'm saying this

4 Name: Curlzzzz !78aUaOiHOk : 2017-12-09 20:31 ID:sCr9OHib [Del]

I would ask her out. Try it. You have nothing to lose.

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7 Name: Ruppo : 2017-12-10 10:34 ID:N6Rgk/es [Del]

>>5 okay :(

8 Name: Kurosuke !KurohFVTN. : 2017-12-10 12:26 ID:p+USA1/7 [Del]

>>5 you could've worded it in a better way.

>>7 you have a choice here. Either ignore your feelings be her friend. or man up and confess.

and we have a discord server if you need more advice: https://discord.gg/teeT99e

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