>>5 >I should keep trying or just be an asshole like the rest of them? That's a lil' bit black and white pal. Behaviour is situational, why don't you just strike a balance between being nice and defending/yourself so you aren't a doormat.
Well there are some ppl who will stop at nothin to get wut thy want or r just plain mean. I suggest that you take pride in who u are and tell them to stop. They'll stop bothering u and ppl will stop seein you as a pushover. good luck!
Nice people get hurt just as bad as the rest of you, but you notice more when it’s them, they’re obvious about it, and I take it you mean you’re a nice person? Let’s investigate this, you’re showing consideration to people who are kind, furthermore you’re noticing their hurt, and feeling for them, proving you too are a nice person, and you too must be hurt by something, INCREDIBLE! I’d never think I’d meet someone as vain as myself but here you are... So tell me, who hurt you, cause I truly care about your problem
Just read all of this and I do see how you’re calling yourself a nice person, so amazing to be honest, but I agree with Namie in a sense, behavior is situational, and being good or bad really just depends who you’re standing next to, now doesn’t it?
