1 Name: Sarah : 2017-11-22 21:38 ID:eBunEe/E [Del]
I went on a date recently and it was not bad, we kissed a couple of times it was ok (he was really bad at it) he tried to make out with me, twice, and kept taking about all the things we would be able to do when we go out again and even mentioned KIDS! who does that on a first date? I felt ok at the time about it, I think it was partially due to the fact that is was the first actual date I had been on and my first kiss too and the adrenaline that came with it. But when I went home I was like what the f*** that was not that great, so much so that I washed my mouth and was really angry with myself. The problem is that he wants to see me again, he thinks that I am the one, and is nearly obsessed with me, I haven't said anything with certainty either way though. There are several reasons why I don't want to be his girlfriend and I don't really want to see him again either so how is the best way to tell him? Please TT
2 Name: Tsuki : 2017-11-23 00:51 ID:ZO5MMDrV [Del]
Oh? Hmm... I would say being straightfoward is the best? Be polite when doing so. Example, rather than saying, "I don't like you". Say, "I'm not fond of you." I don't know, it sounds kinder? But I recommend doing so online because he might get aggresive in real life. I wouldn't want you to be in danger.
3 Name: AmazingHoffman : 2017-11-24 12:29 ID:3Rf/4Tnb [Del]
You have to be cautious around obsessive guys like him. There's no nice way around it, if you tell him online he might get aggressive IRL as well. Whatever you do, stay safe, and if you're scared of him, seek help from a friend or so so you don't have to tell him by yourself. Stay out of danger.
4 Name: Anonymous : 2017-11-28 05:41 ID:6mHTN0Y2 [Del]
bump
5 Name: The Xanathar : 2017-11-28 07:08 ID:Rumq/pOI [Del]
I agree with AmazingHoffman, the best thing to do is keep yourself safe throughout all of this, people who are obsessive can get dangerous.
You've only been on one date, so it shouldn't be too awful to let him down. It's mostly about the wording I'd say, if he does seem creepy/weird then say something like "I don't feel as strongly about you as you do about me", a reason that doesn't put too much blame on him.
If he's not an obssesive weirdo, then maybe give him advice (it could of been his first date too) something like "you came on a bit strongly" might suffice.
But whatever you do, stay safe and don't let him pressure you in to anything you don't want to do.
