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My parents (14)

1 Name: Kaeru : 2017-11-13 15:30 ID:xgSldrMW [Del]

My parents are divorcing.
My father was caught cheating for two years and lying to us.
I'm a single child, what should I do?

2 Name: Kaeru : 2017-11-13 15:40 ID:xgSldrMW [Del]

Sorry for bothering.

3 Name: Jaydon.A : 2017-11-13 15:57 ID:UXYBlK7e [Del]

You weren't bothering at all. Just dont expect a reply in 10 minutes it takes me ages to even get one reply :'D

I have NO idea what you should do man

4 Name: Kaeru : 2017-11-13 16:03 ID:xgSldrMW [Del]

Thank you, it's okay.

5 Name: Devil's Counsellor : 2017-11-13 17:27 ID:zNI01bBZ [Del]

Well asking what you should do is a very open ended question. To me, I might ask why you feel as if you need to do anything? Do you think your parent's shouldn't get divorced? Are you perhaps wondering how you can comfort your parents through this?

But I mean, unless there is something you'd like to do or that you should do, there's no real need for you to feel like you have to do something.

6 Name: Kaeru : 2017-11-14 12:22 ID:xgSldrMW [Del]

Due to the explained situation along with the question, it's very safe to assume that I have mixed feelings about this.
It's only natural for a human being to want to do something about it.

7 Name: Sachiko : 2017-11-14 13:54 ID:JRaXFa1m [Del]

Try to find an outlet and seek help if u need it. Dont be afraid to tell ur parents how u feel about being caught in the cross fire. Good Luck!

8 Name: Kaeru : 2017-11-14 15:47 ID:xgSldrMW [Del]

Thank you.

9 Name: I'mYourFriend : 2017-11-15 00:32 ID:9MBK/3e5 [Del]

You seek help with someone that has legal rights to a house or apartment. And is old enough to take care of someone as old as you.

Gluck tho

10 Name: Kaeru : 2017-11-16 11:21 ID:xgSldrMW [Del]

It's not that easy. I actually love my parents.

11 Name: FindMuck !MrEff/SKhc : 2017-11-16 11:37 ID:CXiZkz1i [Del]

It's never easy when someone has made a decision that permanently effects our daily lives. We tend to wonder if it was our responsibility. If we should've done anything differently.

If you're unsure how to feel, you might want to confront each parent directly with your questions. It might not make you happier, but hearing an explanation will help inform your opinions. Even if you take it with a grain of salt.

12 Name: Anonymous : 2017-11-16 12:38 ID:+RjuPYFZ [Del]

is this a joke? This is literally a plotline from durarara. XD

13 Name: Shiro !SHirOszFlY : 2017-11-16 13:16 ID:9nszAEFO [Del]

>>12 how is this a joke at all? This is a very common situation in family households, ive dealt with the same exact experience.

i cant give much help myself sadly, after my father was kicked out i just shut myself off from him.

14 Name: Namie of the Dollars : 2017-11-16 13:22 ID:qnySvPL0 [Del]

>>12 Was it? The only thing even remotely similar to this was the second episode, and the conflict arose was that the mother ignoring the infidelity.