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Can't get girls at all (15)

1 Name: Lionheart : 2017-11-13 07:57 ID:mEwE/4mK [Del]

I'm back again. Same me. Same problems. I'm going to die with regrets. I just want a clear answer on how to get girls.

Thanks

2 Name: Sid!MYwXno9Hgc : 2017-11-13 08:52 ID:xNwoG9ME [Del]

Be confident in yourself. Don't do things that aren't you. That will help you make friends too. It sounds low, in a way, in trying to get a girl. If you force anything no decent relationship will come out of it.

You can't love another until you love yourself though. I experienced that first hand, and I was oblivious to the people who liked me.

3 Name: time of dark : 2017-11-13 13:01 ID:Z+AX06X4 [Del]

lionheart are you trying to be player or are you going after one girl?

4 Name: Lionheart : 2017-11-13 13:08 ID:mEwE/4mK [Del]

>>3 little of both, leaning towards the former.

5 Name: Namie of The Dallas : 2017-11-13 13:12 ID:k/4W6oAh [Del]

>I'm going to die with regrets
How old are you?

6 Name: Shiro !SHirOszFlY : 2017-11-13 15:34 ID:9nszAEFO [Del]

^ what namie said lmao

7 Name: Jaydon.A : 2017-11-13 15:58 ID:UXYBlK7e [Del]

>>1 1. Crossdress
2. Be cutesy and submissive
3. ROMANCE

8 Name: Lionheart : 2017-11-13 17:25 ID:hjohMmCI [Del]

I'm 23

9 Name: Chronos !OLodFucK0U : 2017-11-13 17:28 ID:gVhESQ9Z [Del]

At least you quit whining and pretending to be suicidal.
I'm very surprised - that's an unexpected development.

You should probably stop searching for girls - girls actually don't like being hunted that desperately.
Just try to be yourself and wait until you find someone.
And everything >>2 said.

10 Name: Namie of The Dallas : 2017-11-13 17:34 ID:k/4W6oAh [Del]

>>8 Then unless you plan on killing yourself you'll be fine. The myth that everyone's had plenty of relationships (or even just lost their virginity) by the end of their teens is not very accurate.

>>7's first two suggestions are sure to pick up some snowflake trash of tumblr though.

11 Name: Sid!MYwXno9Hgc : 2017-11-13 17:51 ID:xNwoG9ME [Del]

It sounds more like you are having a problem letting someone go. You meet new people in the future and if they don't like you there is no way to force them to.

I'm guessing you already told them how you feel and they don't feel the same. Get over them and move on, you are probably blinded to the others who like you too. Stop being so hung up on a person who doesn't have feelings for you. It happens, move on.

I might be a bit more harsh since I recall you're age. You're having teenage problems. I also never had feelings for anyone before I was 20, since I never liked myself before then.

Also to be with someone, and in a meaningful relationship, you have to be yourself. You can't put on a facade, since it will fall apart in the long run. Main thing is confidence, but not to the point it's narcissism. Especially in the adult world, since people tend to look more for a stable partner that can help support them, not one who needs support. That is why you have to love yourself first as well. Once you do you should be content with being alone.

You will find a career path and have goals toward that path after you love yourself and have confidence in yourself. Others will recognize you too.

12 Name: Kanekisnickers24 : 2017-11-13 17:53 ID:ukhJwCXj [Del]

Honestly, be your truest self to find someone. 'Cuz that's what I think, its all about; having a best friend who loves you.

So try talking to people, and try not to necessarily 'look for someone', just go with the flow. You're still young!

13 Name: Lionheart : 2017-11-14 20:28 ID:mEwE/4mK [Del]

>>9 yeah, definitely not that depressed anymore, although it still lingers. I get what you mean by waiting, but everyone else seems to have, or at least had, someone. Not me.

>>11 kind of. I still think this girl might end up with me, but otherwise I gave up on her.

14 Name: Rin!W80JVncZoU : 2017-11-15 02:32 ID:PzVjV8wM [Del]

>>1 I would definitely say, rely on luck. But if you are truly desperate, try Tinder or something. What's important is that you be yourself. Look good and behave good in your own ways, and I'm sure someone will get attracted, one way or another.

15 Name: G.P. !K6N517zljo : 2017-11-15 02:36 ID:h479P+NA [Del]

It's not your fault. You only haven't found the right girl yet. Other people find many girls, but they are always heartbroken after a few weeks. You just need time, but when you will find your girl, you will stay happy until the end of time! <3