Ok. So I’m gay and I have a crush on my classmate. He’s pretty popular, but we’re just acquaintances. He thinks being gay is weird and gross, I know that, but I still like him. I need serious help...

You posted this twice, but I understand. ( honestly, in my opinion, if he thinks that way, just ignore him. You never know maybe he’ll bully you if he finds out. But that’s just my theory / opinion.)

>>1 Alright, you got 2 major obstabcles here. One, he is popular. Two, he is digusted by gay people.

Now, how exactly are you going to deal with this? Sorry to say that being his boyfriend would be almost impossible, giving the circumstances. So, my advise is that you continue being acquaintances. Be close to him as a friend. Slowly bestfriends.

Maybe soon enough, you can be open about being gay and he would be fine with it? Or even ended up, he likes you too? So be patient, start small and move up slowly, you will never know the outcome. So try.

imagine if a girl came up to you and said that she likes you, but (let's pretend) you are disgusted with cisgender s c u m s.

how would you respond? you could probably work from there.

Don't be discouraged ^^ There are a lot of obstacles, yeah. But the important thing is that hard work almost certainly pays off. Best case scenario, u two become baes and live happily ever after. Worst case, u now have a lot more experience that u can use for future circumstances. No matter what, don't give up without even having tried it.

Ok so you want a guy you can’t have because you can’t have him? Fully knowing that he doesn’t like guys and thinks being gay is “weird”
This is a tragedy, no a travesty!... to listen to that is, let me tell you that you live in the present, no one cares if you’re gay, no one wants to listen to your made up story, and one thing gay males need to stop doing is trying to turn straight guys gay, it’s one of the most pathetic things a person can do, like imagine if a straight guy tried to turn a gay guy or girl straight? He’d be outcast and bullied, so don’t be a hypocrite. Be gay, be happy and find another gay guy, don’t latch on to a straight guy you don’t even know, cause we’ve all heard this story, and truly it’s embarassing to listen to

Good luck (≧◡≦)

If you like someone and their sexual orientation doesn't line up with yours, you just gotta suck it up and deal with it. I'm bisexual and run into this problem alot. Straight men and gay women can really fuck up your mood, especially if you saw something in them.

The sad truth is you can't change them and you'll never have them. You just gtta move on.