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Crush? (9)

1 Name: Walter : 2017-10-24 10:52 ID:BHJsktwN [Del]

I might have crush on a girl. Its been really long since I had any interest in romance or sex. Actually, no, I dont want that kind of thing from her. I just, find her really intriguing.

I'm really into her honestly, for no real reason. I seen her only a few times this year and I simply know her name. Not caring about romance and sex, what the hell am I experiencing? I dont know.

If anything, I dont want to confess my love or anything. But I do want to tell her about my thoughts regarding her. Because, I might not be able to see her anymore.

The problem is, I'm so awkward and its so unexpected for someone like me to, be in love in someone. Its really weird, I will judge myself and I'm afraid of others judging me.

But, should I just let her go and never express myself? I really feel that would be wasted.

So I'm in a limbo, should I tell her my thoughts or just let her go?


2 Name: Snyper !svMS/p8SOo : 2017-10-24 11:43 ID:83dIPXgP [Del]

I think I know what you are talking about, but at the same time I really don't.

But to start with, tell her. Walk up to her (if you can) and say hi. Introduce yourself, and tell her what you think as best as you can, without sounding creepy.

Don't worry if she judges you, if she judges you for telling her what you think of her, then she isn't worth the time. Trust me.

And also trust me when I say, you shouldn't let something like this go. It's not only the wrong thing to do (in most cases) but it is the dumb thing to do.

I hope this helps.

3 Name: Walter : 2017-10-24 11:52 ID:BHJsktwN [Del]

Sorry, I might mess up a few lines. Alright to the advice. It does help a bit.

Do you or anyone esle have specific advise on being confident, when it comes to approaching girls and talking to them?
General advise I suppose.

4 Name: Namie : 2017-10-25 11:13 ID:/EEEeZtA [Del]

>>3 Speak to them like they're a person, instead of specifically a 'girl'. Removing the stigma of "Oh god, I'm talking to a girl!" is one of the best things someone can do when trying to approach a member of the opposite sex. They're just people who are slightly biologically different, not aliens.

Good Luck.

5 Name: Walter : 2017-10-25 20:06 ID:IpOIkHvj [Del]

>>4 Thats a good way to hack the brain. Good advise. Thanks.

6 Name: Namie : 2017-10-25 21:29 ID:/EEEeZtA [Del]

>>5 I hope it helps.

7 Name: phne : 2017-10-25 22:50 ID:2/KqI6Je [Del]

i agree with >>2 just start talking to her :3 , look at all the pepl who have grown closer together (whether romantically or platonically) they all started by just talking, then talking some more, and more, until it became a regular thing. And when you talk to someone you both get to uncover bits and pieces of the other person's mind/character. Sometimes those bits and pieces match up well with yours, sometimes they dont (in your case i hope they match up nicely :3 ) So yea hope you get around to metaphorically punching whatever is holding you back in the face and get around to talking with her~

8 Name: Sachiko : 2017-10-26 08:00 ID:JRaXFa1m [Del]

Talk to her. You never know wut u may miss.

9 Name: Walter : 2017-10-26 10:05 ID:JwNr7PdE [Del]

>>7>>8 Alright. I will find an oppurtunity to talk.