So I have been talking to this guy and flirting with him for almost 3,4 months now he talks to me like as if I'm his girlfriend but we never really confirm that we are in a relationship. Is he playing me?

I'm no love expert. But judging from your statements. Easiest way to find out is to ask him. Because who knows? 4 months of talking/flirting and that you feel the boyfriend vibes from him. Its either you're imagining it or its building up to a confession. Many possibilites, just ask him.

Maybe that boy is just to shy to confirm it. Either that or he could be a player. Idk. Maybe u should confirm it urself if he's to scared to take the first step. And if u do confirm and he says yes than great! If he doesn't wut have u got to lose right? Good luck