1 Name: Sumisu : 2017-10-11 11:14 ID:goLEFSLr [Del]
I have a pathological lying boyfriend and he was lying for a while and he never told me he was lying but my mom found out, and she is pissed that i still want to talk to him as a friend. Im waiting till my trust heals and im not gonna be up to dating him or anyone for years. Well my mom is furius so any advice to calm her down and get her to know that she can trust me in handling this especially when she is trying to forbid us from talking even though she said its okay for us to be friends. Also im turning 18 in a week. Any advise on convincing her please? anything will help.
2 Name: Tenshi : 2017-10-11 18:01 ID:QW4iyVOi [Del]
Well, it's important to consider that your mom really wants whatever's best for you, and in her eyes your ex is DEFINITELY not very good for you xd you need to get her to trust that you can politely distance yourself properly from your ex while still talking to him as a friend so that you can convince her that you won't get hurt again, because that's her main concern. Good luck ~
3 Name: Sachiko : 2017-10-11 19:27 ID:JVzqOQbh [Del]
Sumisu, what i believe u should do is try gaining ur mom's trust again. Tell her that u have already made ur mistake and have learned from it. That because of that experience u can now tell the good from bad. But do it at a time when she is the least stressed u know? But make sure that guy learned his listen. Or ur mom is not gonna let u outside the house till ur 36! Stay away from buys for a while and tell ur ex that its not personal. Hang out with ur girl friends like go out with them for a while. When ur mom sees that ur with ur friends and ur ok i think she'll open more up to the idea that you can be trusted with the other sex. Best of luck!
Sachiko
4 Name: Sumisu : 2017-10-13 11:02 ID:mcuBSNjX [Del]
Thanks Tenshi and Sachiko. Im gonna try my best to do that. I wish i knew how to get him to go to therapy for it or somehow help him. Life is definitely hard.
5 Name: Opium Poppy : 2018-01-25 12:36 ID:IzbJveuQ [Del]
what he lied about how did that work?
6 Name: ChilliBlossoms : 2018-01-26 07:17 ID:jE5YW3gV [Del]
Based on your story, I think I agree with your mom that you should probably try to stay away from him. Pathological liars, you can't really trust them.
You're mom is just worried about you. I think you should focus more on letting her know that you've learned your lesson. And you hanging out with the guy even if just as friends isn't really showing her that.
