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Confused (4)

1 Name: Anonymous : 2017-09-16 18:49 ID:yB1OnqFG [Del]

So I am In a committed, long term relationship with someone, and I love her to death, but I find myself missing the days when I was single. Not so I could date around, but I just like being alone and being left to do my own thing all the time. Like I just like being basically dead to the world, and that makes me happy.

I'm not depressed or anything, and even though I prefer being alone, I love my girlfriend to death. I just don't know what to do about this. Can anyone help?

2 Name: Diatoxicotic : 2017-09-16 21:13 ID:f8z9jnO+ [Del]

Take my word for it, cherish those days, Ive been there, and believe me, whenever your a quote on quote ghost to the world, it's sucks, I came to hate being alone, when it was something I loved, I hated being away from her, or something like that, I worried about her, and worried if she was worrying about me, I get it, everyone needs their time alone, and you can have them,but everything comes at a price, sure, being a ghost might be nice sometimes, but is it really worth being without her or anyone, there are many ways things can go, but my advice is treat today, and everyday and every moment you have with her like gold, no, more then that, if she's that important to you then she's irreplaceable, I mean, everyone come with their faults and a price on their head, so even if you don't have that time now, you might again someday, and if it's without her, then you might hate being a ghost, you might wish to have her there again, you might wish to have flesh and blood to touch the one who was there once more, even so, all I can say is cherish these moments with her, and accept things as they are, bc you have her, you may not have that little time right now, but all in all, cherish it with her and all those moments, but if your asking for an answer, I'd say just spend your with her and whenever the times right pick your moments carefully and take your time there okay? Hope this helps, you're lucky you know, don't forget that XD

3 Name: Amae : 2017-09-16 21:32 ID:g8s0bkdW [Del]

Of course we will help you, remember, we are the Dollars and Dollars help each other~
Ma advice would be to commit suicide. It will solve all of your problems at once and you will definitely have no problems in the future anymore. Doesn't this sound nice~?

4 Name: HowDare : 2017-09-18 06:34 ID:HGPLkYea [Del]

You should bring this up with her, just tell her you'd like some days to yourself.

There's nothing wrong with wanting/needing alone time, it might be abit difficult at first but she should respect that hopefully.