I don't know right now.... theres this guys I've slept with more than a couple of times, we get on good and I'd like it to go onto be more.. but don't want to push, have been disappointed too many times, his mum is ill, dying. Today i called him up and he said he is "fucked up" and back from his friends house... I first thought he was high but... he said he wasn't and that it isn't something he could say on the phone, I think his mum has died, he says his family is home so for me not to come over, I'm fucking worried, I think I'm jumping to conclusions, fuck, he said to maybe meet up tomorrow am, should I? Am I overreacting? Is he just using me? Fuck I don't know what to think...

We'll, I'm kinda confused to what you're getting at, but whatever relationship you have with the person, you should support this person if he's lost someone dear to him.

Well... I´d go meeting him. Whatever it is, perhaps this meeting will get things straight.