Hey. I'm just a dude that don't mind giving people advice on the internet. So if any of you need counseling.. I'm here.

Hey pal, I'm currently holding a grudge against someone and I am very aware it's tearing them apart and it both breaks my heart and gives me such a sense of happiness exclusive to such acts and it's all over an argument we recently had over seeing one another and miscommunications and while not unjustified what I'm doing it is probably taking it too far to some just not me. I need a true opinion on the situation taking everything into consideration.

Hey Rin pal... I could use some venting and perhaps help, advice... I am 18, anxiety struggler who tempts to not follow through with things, less than 6 months ago I dropped out of Art School, the pressure was too much and I decided I wanted to be a writer, study literature, languages and perhaps even teach... thing is I am not in a bad posicion here in CR. but this country will collapse in a few years and I am looking for scholarships thing is I am dead terrified like I am longing to go but at the same time it'll mean to leave all my family and friends behind, all my life and culture... I have been contemplating taking a scholarship to Japan but Ill probably wont make it through the application exams its like heavy math and chemistry... anyhow I sorta feel like I could use some encouragement because I really gotta fly outta here so anyway just some encourage words please? and perhaps if you know about good countries to live in I could use the info, thanks man

KHERSY:
I know how holding a grudge feels, its sorta satisfying seeing them crawl in their own shit, dying to get forgiveness but as someone that held a grudge for 2 years over some FUCKED UP SHIT I was done outta the blue, don't.honestly it fucked me up so badly I mean it, its not easy to forgive and forget but at least try to have a respectful talk with them. I believe it will do good, good luck and stay alive l-/

Hi, I wanna ask, what are you gonna do when you feel yourself is worthless? Well basically, how to improve your self confident? Thanks

>>2 Hey Kershy. Grudges are normal, it is not really a bad thing you know? Its just how human perceive good and bad. But in this case.. you should drop it. For your own good and theirs. Its good that youre aware.. Im not sure whats the argument about.. But please do solve it be logical reasoning. I know its difficult but you have to try.

http://wittcom.com/how-to-resolve-conflict/

try this.

If it does not work.. Please come back.

>>3 Hey BKS. No problem man, I will try my best to encourage you and provide you some advice.

I cant symphatize with you regarding the dropout, because Ive never been through that. But I can see it from my shoes..honestly.. And thats ok. My sister been through such things too. I can understand.. Im not sure what path you can take from your position.. But dont give up on those dreams you had.

I agree about the country. Im not sure how things goes on there. But please do make a sensible choice. Leaving your country isnt a bad choice. But do consider the cons. I cant make decisions for you. I trust that you can reason with logic. Find a path thats corresponds to most factors positively.

I know you feel so off without your family or friends.. culture as well.. But you really decide such path. Dont hold back. If you want to survive, be it generally or academics.. You need a fair amount of effort, intelligence and consideration. You can do it because logically speaking Math or Chemistry can be easily be mastered by practise.


https://psychcentral.com/lib/top-10-most-effective-study-habits/

Hope this can get you started. All the best, sincerely.

>>4 Hey Licht. I feel worthless every night. Because of how I always do things I dont have to and completely ignore the important stuff. What I do to relax is to stop feeling. And start thinking. Logically, what is the best way to counter such problems? Is feeling too much good? What does worthless mean to me? What can I do? Ask those questions and answer them yourself. You can do it because rationally speaking, anyone can. As long you are an average human being with basic human capability.

https://zenhabits.net/25-killer-actions-to-boost-your-self-confidence/

Hope this can aid you. If you still have problems.. Come again.

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