Hey guys. You know I generally feel happy about myself. Then I see that I'm single, a 22 year old virgin, have a minimum wage job, and get turned down by every girl I try to talk to. Then I compare myself to others and see their accomplishments, women, money, all of that jazz. Now I know I'm better off that a lot of people (e.g. I'm not starving and have a home) but I really just can't stop comparing myself to people who are better than me. This includes my friends. I'm sick of it. I just want to be happy but I sometimes can't because I'm missing something, someone, whatever. I just don't have anything that my friends would say "man I wish I had that". I don't. So how can I just stop comparing myself and just be happy with who I am?

dont compare yourself to others, youre perfect j the way you are, im 13, hated by so many it would make trump look good, im no muscle, i have little friends, every girl thinks im ugly and retarded. if i can put up with this shit, you can do much much more. Lionheart... Lions have brave, strong, hearts. you have a strong one too. Use it before its too late.

But maybe the fact that you can't stop comparing yourself to others means you want change. I bealive these feelings you're experiencing exists in order to make you more interesting human. Instead of trying to ignore these feelings, accept them and use to. For what I could use them? That depends just on you.