Im usually an ass on this site so I apologize but I'm coming here cause I literally can't talk about this with real people, so here's my story... about a year ago my dad left my mom, he's cause a bunch of money problems for us now and I don't think I will have a house much longer, not to mention my dad is now in $37k debt and is knee deep in hookers and drugs, and my brother is a pcychopath who constantly acts like movie characters "uninterntionally and/or doesn't act like them he is just like them through his personality" he constantly threatens my family, and is destroying our house (figuratively and literally) causing damages that we can't afford as of now, he recently got out of juvy (yeah he's a minor) and has blamed us all for it. I'm currently stressed out because I have to start college classes this coming semsester and I doubt I can afford it (I'm inbetween jobs and no one is hiring) and I doubt I'll do any good in school, to top that all off I am going to have to fight a guy in less than 24 hours, and I'm not afraid of getting in fights, but this low life douche is sending nudes to and harassing young girls (some of which out my friends) granted he's an anime nerd but he's a little bigger than me, I'm not afraid of losing, I'm afraid of letting those girls down. My whole family hates me, and I know everyone says that, and they say it when it's totally untrue, but my family has gone out of their way not just to show it but to prove it to everyone (and by saying it to my face) I honestly don't know where I went wrong with my life, I've been an ok kid, pretty popular, average grades, and I go to church every week, so where did I go wrong, anyone have any advice whatsoever for me?
Cause I honestly wish I could be making all this up right now, I wish this could be a story just to get attention like every other kid I know

I wish i had more then words right now to give you but they are all i have so here they are. leave try your best to get out of that family see if you can crash at a friends or find somewhere you can stay but they are not good for you. you have done nothing wrong nothing that has happened is your fault bad things happen to even the best people. but if you feel afraid for your life by being there then you need to find someway out of it thats the advice i can give you it may not be the best but i think thats what you need to do.

I think you should try focus on your self and keep the studying on hold. Try to move far away from things that make you stress out. Sometimes it is better to run away.

>>2 and >>3 thank you both so much, I've been thinking about leaving for some time now, and it's probably for the best thaf I do, but I honestly can't skip the fight, I mean I've been in a lot so I'm not afraid of taking hits, I just really can't let him get away with sexually harassing these girls, it's not right and it's against my code of honor to let it pass by

I'm not saying I have a strict "code of honor" but I'm not going to let this guy do that to teenage girls, I'm seriously not gonna allow that if I have something to do about it, these girls have texted me saying "they're afraid of him, he follows them, he harasses them and asks for nudes" like what kind of scum does that

Instead of taking things by yourself, maybe you should ask for help from other parties. For example the police? Idk if it would help but it is better to ask for help from outside then you do it by yourself.

I think DokiDokiHaru has a point. Go get help from somebody.

First off McDonald's is hiring... As for your younger brother, show him who's boss!!! Don't let that little prick control your house.. He needs discipline, juvy isnt shit... He needs a good old fasion ass beating... As far as college goes, apply for financial aid...There is help out there financially, just gotta put in the effort... (Or get a sugar momma or daddy depending on what your into)... And finally, as far as the bully goes, i think they should talk to there parents about it.. In the end if he keeps it up,whip that bitches ass. Nvr show fear... He will feed off it... Moral of the story, DONT BE A BITCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!