So i dated my friend of 3 years and she recently broke up with me. The problem is tho she just wanted to be friends but she wouldnt give me any of her time. So i decided to cut ties with her completely. Was this the right move? We are going to have more classes together next year and it is just going to be awkward.

Honestly you did do something stupid but...you can fix it. Tell her hat you're sorry. I mean when you're in trouble she could get you out of that trouble you know? So be friends with her and I promise you two will be happy with other people but be glad that you two are best friends. If not then text me on kik my username is GojiraXIII

Why was it stupid? It is true that remaining as friends is good but she is the one who is appearently not interested in actually doing so. To be friends both sides have to show at least a bit of will. If she does not want to spend time or even talk with you then you have no reason to run after her. Personally I think you did the right thing with cutting ties. I understand that it will be akward (unfortunately I don't know how to deal with that myself sry) but pls stand strong and as long as she does not show a hint of wanting to be friends leave it. Believe me you will meet other people.

>>3 I agree, but don't cut her off entirely. Treat her as how u will treat strangers- with respect. If a person is not willing to give u back the time u have spent on them, they are simply not worth your time. Spend time on the people who matters to you.

Never apologize for having high standards people who care an want to be part of your life will rise meet them

You did nothing wrong. A relationship has to work from both ways.
You should treat her like a stranger. She simply does not deserve you. Move your focus on things that you like until you feel, but there are other people you can talk to.

How did you cut ties with her? Did you tell her straight up? Or are you just avoiding her completely?
Keep in mind, you guys have been together for 3 years... People these days are moving in together just within 6 months of dating O_O

From what I'm gathering here... She wants to remain friends but doesn't have the strength to do so right this moment. She probably feels conflicted for breaking up with you. Maybe she feels hurt or guilty when she spends time with you now? She may have been the one to break up with you but it might've been just as difficult for her as well. Try to communicate before doing anything drastic. Maybe what you guys need is time. It really IS asking a lot to remain friends immediately after a break up after all

It's true that after a break up couples still have feelings for one another for a period of time... A good way is to let some time pass, so both sides can cool down. After that try initiating a move, say, 'wanna grab coffee?' Keep doing this until you've confirmed that she does not have any feelings left for u, then ask her about it. If she doesn't feel for u, the relationship is over.

U could still be friends tho, no harm in that.