Many websites tell you to meditate to find the answer and become enlightened, but there is an easier way that to do this or to get help from a friend or random forums.

Turn your radio onto a static channel, tape halved-golf balls onto your eyelids, and meditate. You'll see rainbows and ponies at first, but keep searching through the clouds and you'll find the secret to how to improve your relationship. It's all in the subconscious.

Do this every night for a week to see results