a friend of a friend is starving herself, is depressed, thought about self harming (which i mean starving yourself IS self harm) and it seems like im her only support, even though we barely know eachother... What can i do to help her more and get her to hear me?

There is someone more who knows about this? I think you should tell somebody about it, somebody who can help your friend, anyways, please don't leave her.

My apologies everyone.
Initially posted this to the wrong thread.
>>1
First off, guidance councilor.

Second, help her find hobbies with a community, like Wargaming/LARPing, Car restoration, Firearms, a chess club, Sports, Videogames that have a world chat like World Of Tanks Blitz used to have (at least world chat) or, potentially, show her here.
As silly as it is, it helped me get over some shit (not self harm but other things)

Don't force her.
Just invite her frequently.
Hell, doing it together may even help.

I'm gonna go all weaboo for a sec and use a Durarara example: Erika and Walker.
Just find her a good close group and do your damnedest to help her get in or form her own.

i already typed a reply but i guess it didn't go through?

anyways
>>2 yes, someone knows about it, her original friend i met her through... That friend avoids the topic and ignores the subject of it very much so.. I wont abandon her I promise.

>>3 I wont force her and I'll do what you advise... great durarara example

thank you both!!