its me again. 3 people told me that i should talk to my boyfriend who i never speak with for a few weeks already. I JUST CANT DO IT. I LOVE HIM. BUT IM TOO SCARED AND FRIGHTENED.. I DONtz KNOW WHAT TO SAY. IM OVERTHINKING

I think that a boyfriend should be someone that you can have those hard conversations with. And if you really can't do it, then maybe you need to move on. You should never be afraid to talk to you loved one, nervous yea, but not afraid. Hope everything works out.

THIS IS KINDA HARD BUT JUST TALK TO HIM

Even i've also had problems in talking with my partner and once u start to talk to him/her u would get used to conversing and gradually it becomes a easy thing.

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Okay, i really have nothing to contribute, i just want to know.

Why.
Why do you find it hard to speak to the guy if he's your boyfriend?
You obviously were able to speak to him at one point.

Do you not enjoy it?
Does the guy scare or emberass you?
What's the problem?

it's hard to me to speak with him because he's always the first one to talk to me so i don't have the courage to start the conversation. it's been 4 weeks already and we're not seeing each other anymore nor talking to each other. of course, i love him thats why i enjoy talking to him. he's kinda weird but i'm not scared of him. i dont know the problem. maybe its me

You should message him, or even speak with him. It could be that he is tired, that he always has to start up the conversation, and maybe he has the feeling you don´t take the relationship as serious as he does.