So the story is that I've been dating this girl for almost 2 years. To be fair, I loved her deeply and truly but there were a lot of times where I was crying constantly everyweek for the things we argued and for the things she was mad about. Till one day, when she leaves to go back to her own country (she's a foreigner in my country), and I noticed her possessiveness is out of control. Long story short, we broke up and I had been successful avoided her. Fast forward a little, I found out that she was rape and someone was trying to pretend to be me and fool with her through text messages. She messaged me to confirm if it was me, and that was when we back in contact with each other. Soon after, I knew that she tried to commit suicide and that if I was not there for her, she would do again. How can I just ignore her when she wants to commit suicide? And so we kinda like back to bring friends right now but things arent just working out between us. Even as friends, she's still very possessive, unreasonable, unfair and thus, we always fight even till now.

I really need help in how to get away from this relationship. She's not willing to let me go saying that without me she will suicide. She basically rest her life on my shoulder and gavee that burden. What I should do? Im really lost because whenever we fight we would always cry and its just plain painful to bear and go through all of these for the both of us. Anyone have a solid advice? That would not cause her to suicide. By the way, we both are girls. That is probably why both of us are clueless and hurtful.

Thank you for reading this :)

Warm Regards,
S.Neko

It might help if you can say in what ways is she possessive, unreasonable, and unfair. But just from the sounds of it, she doesn't sound like she is willing to actually commit suicide. She just sounds like someone wanting attention and is trying to make you feel guilty and responsible so you'll stay with her.

@Devil's Counsellor:
She's possessive, unreasonable and unfsir in ways such as she kept telling me that its okay to go out with my other friends, but still she would kept texting and calling and when the outing took longer than it was planned, she started accusing me of not keeping my promise when I said it would end at 9pm for example. There are also times where we would be fighting about issues that are very small, and when I said that we should stop arguing, her responses was that Im trying to escape the arguement but when she said stop arguing, we have to stop. I tried to continue the fight when she suggested us to stop because I want to see how she would react. Her reaction was "now I say stop, you dont want to. So lets continue to fight". Which in my opinion is so unfair. She kept saying that she gave me my freedom but its like im still being pull around by a leash that she's holding onto. And these are not the only thing that is happening between us. She was also like this even now,when we're just friends and not together.

There are also times where I would need to run errands for my family or help my friends who needed my aid. And of course I need to inform her so, if not she would go crazy again and say why I didnt tell her everything. And so when im helping others, she would complain saying why do i always have to help others even my family she complain about. But others are not the only ones i helped, even for her, when she needed my help the most, needed my time, i gave her too. But she never remember those times.