There is this guy that likes me. But I don't like him. He's been initiating conversations with me for about a month or so and we've been on a date once. Thing is, I don't have any feelings for him. I just haven't done anything to stop this because I'm scared I'll never find another guy that likes me, after all, it took 17 years for one to show up, who knows when it will happen again. I know I should stop this before it goes to far. But I don't know how and I'm scared of doing it. Help.
Instead of watching out for who likes you, look for who you like, who you want to be around. Tell him the truth, don't drag it on, say the reason, apologize to be nice and that is the end of it.
If he truly cares, he would care enough to understand you that much.
>>2 This is good advice. And if you don't find someone who likes you, you wouldn't be happy either way. If you don't like someone, then you would just be being rude (in a way) to that person and yourself if you dated them
Don't force yourself into a relationship with him if you don't want to. It sounds like if you do date him, it'll just be out of fear someone else won't like you. That probably wouldn't be a very enjoyable relationship for either of you!
Give things time! Like Aoi said, try to find someone you like. You still have a lot of time!!!
