It has been almost a year since my last relationship.

I still miss her.

Everything was so abrupt that in my mind I havent processed what happened. I see a picture of her and my heart still skips.

It is sad to have to move on and I know that for whatever I say it seems like I am a horrible guy that can't let go.

The case here is that I love her and I only miss her so much.

Just wanted to write it down somewhere.

I cant exactly sympathize, so Im not going to lie and say that I know how you feel, but I do hope you get better. my only advice is to hang around people that can help you forget, distract you from the sadness(friends, family etc.).

I'm sorry to hear that. They often say that "There's many fish in the sea." And I suppose it's true but it's easier said then done. Relationships really hurt when they end and I really hope you feel better soon. Try meeting new people, you could possibly meet the one for you.

It's been almost a year since my last relationship... I still miss him. I pretend in front of my friends that I think he's some terrible asshole who hurt me but at the same time I stil want him more than anything... I have a girlfriend.. And it hurt so much to see her cry because she thinks I'll leave her to try to be with that guy again and to be honest.. I might do that. I think you and I can relate...

You're not a horrible guy.
It takes time, and even though my relationship was the shortest thing in the world and it's been an year,
I can't let go.
So who can possibly blame you?
I usually try to write my emotions (not give it to the guy of course) and draw. Try out some new things, new hobbies, read,
But honestly it's okay.
It's okay to cry, it's okay to miss her
Because we're human and that's just what we do.
An year or two, we need time to heal.
And maybe it won't go away, but with time maybe you can cherish the time that you had, while it lasted.

Thank you for responding. I just have gotten this feeling that it is wrong or obsessive to feel this way.

Maybe what is wrong is that I still hope for her to comeback.

A large part of it is that I got extremely insecure about it, but its like you all said maybe it just needs time.

I had something really nice but i didn't hit "I'm not a robot" before I hit reply.

fucking hell.