So there's this guy that is kinda giving me those mixed signals.I mean,I met him and I hadn't really noticed him at start..But he texted me on facebook and all,and then he started flirting with me.Actually he mentioned stuff like; we should hang out etc.So,I agreed and then he asked if I could meet him on Saturday night.Unfortunately I told him I was busy on Saturday night,which was true..And after that we didn't talk..He said now u pissed me off or something like that.Amd I answered well u pissed me off as well.Anyway,I saw him again coincidentally at a bar I went to and I said hi.I told him something like "well I see you aren't even texting me anymore" in a kinda funny tone and he replied well you didn't send me anything either.Anyway after that I went home and he texted me after an hour or two.We started talking again,more about his job and mine.We're both musicians,so he mentioned he could help me get a job as a singer somewhere.So he told me we should meet up someday and I agreed.We went out for coffee and he started asking me stuff like "what do you like in a guy?" and "what do you think is important in a relationship?" While he also told me about his exes.I didn't actually expect the conversation to go there so I was startled but I talked to him about me past as well.I also noticed he was a pretty decent looking guy,and I liked the way he talked to me.My point is I've started developing feelings for him and I feel like a complete idiot.We did talk about those things but he didn't pay for anything so I guess he also did not consider the meeting a date.He also didn't make any kind of move on me or something..Anyway,the moment I get home he texts to ask if I got home safe..We kept chatting and all,and the next day he texted me again.I had gone to a club the previous day near his house and I told him how much it sucked..Then out of the blue he goes like "so when are we going out to get a drink?" I did not expect that,but,well I told him something like "next week if you feel like it" then I logged out..He agreed and I told him I had to log out.He said " Okay,goodnight ;) " Today I logged in again..Not a single text.He was online.What the fuck?Why do I always have to deal with the douchebags?Does he even like me??Should I text him first?Like..I don't even know!!What the fuck!!!Why is he doing that...Fuck my life.I honestly need help guys..

First of all: he may really like you. But then, as you said, he seems like a "douchebag". I got shivers trough my spine already at that "now you pissed me off" part xD. In short, I don't know if he likes you or not, but if it was me, I'd keep my distance. He seems like a lot of work and I wouldn't like you to be hurt due to his actions (past or future). Of course it's your choice and I don't know the whole case, it may be just that even he doesn't know what he is doing. Do as what you think is the best, just be careful. (｡･ω･｡)ﾉ♡

what, lol both of you guys are doing the same thing, how is he a douchebag, he is just being confident asking you out. If you like the guy try it if you guys have time, if not then don't lol no stress..

Just be yourself..
There's actually kind of some different scenarios for the not-texting-me-even-though-hes-online thing.
-Hes waiting for you to text to him. Everyone gets tired all the time when they keep on having to start the conversation.
-Hes in no mood to talk to you.
-He left his phone open, and hes nowhere nearby to chat. everyone does that. Leave their phone open I mean.
Jsut be yourself. What will you do when you're in this situation?