Sorry to say this but praying wont make a solution appear in your mind. You are just in a pretty shitty situation and thats all there is to it.
You should probably get a job anyways, its probably still better than nothing. If he gets fired, he will have to find a new job. Whether or not you want to have children or wait is completely up to you. Its not like you would let an internet stranger decide for you anyways. If you just went here to vent, thats ok, but if you were expecting actual advice, there isnt much to be said. As I already said, its just a shitty situation. Maybe you could try talking about it to her higher ups or something, there is usually a system in case something like this happens.