so, I think I should start from the beginning. I'm not a person that falls in love or even gets a crush on someone easily. In fact, I can think of 4 people I've genuinely liked liked. But even 3 of those cant exactly be considered proper crushes. The first one was when i was in primary school, I liked the guy for 5 years but it was just a childish crush. The second one was more of an obsession than a crush, I was literally obsessed with the guy and then it suddenly stopped. And the third one I kinda forced myself to like so that I wouldn't feel guilty i rejected another guy. So yeah, all three of then were pretty shitty crushes and I'm pretty sure this is the first time I've actually had feelings like this. I'm in my third year of high school and at the beginning of the year, three new students joined my class. I already knew 2 of them, but it was my first time seeing the 3rd guy. Because I can recognize pretty much everyone from my year I was surprised by the fact that I had never seen him before and I thought he was kinda cute. Ok, i thought that was it. But, it's been 6 months and I just find myself liking him more and more. It's not really a big thing, definitely not love but going that way. I just keep noticing more and more little things about him and he's on my mind a lot more then he was a few months ago, being around him makes me blush. But I'm not obsessed with him, I'm not a 12 yr old child anymore and I definitely didn't force myself to start liking him. So, I'm really scared of this. Because I have no idea what to do. And the main thing is that he's dating another girl from our class that I get along with well. So my morals keep telling me I should just stop my feelings soon, before I actually fall in love with this guy, but I have no idea how to do that and a part of me is actually hoping they break up so that I can "make my move". But i don't even know what my move would be because im antisocial awkward and shy and not to mention too nice to try and date someone if he was in a relationship with a person I'm okay with and wouldn't want to hate me. Help?

Oh boy if I didn't understand this situation all too well. I have literally never liked anyone until about late November. Long story short, I liked a girl, she liked me, we dated for about a week and split apart cause we only knew each other for less then a month and now she's dating my best bro. The issue is that because of circumstances, there is no bad blood between any of us, so I understand the feelings and guilt involved in wishing that two people break up for your own sake. To avoid shifting the topic too much onto me and away from you, I will give you about the best advice I can. Find a close friend who you trust wholeheartedly and who knows everyone involved, and ask them. Their thoughts are probably far more relevant and understanding than those of people who don't personally know anyone involved.