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Thought-Action Dissonance (5)

1 Name: Takoturtle22 : 2017-01-31 01:59 ID:pFsZpxta [Del]

Now this is difficult to explain.
I lack motivation in just about all aspects of my life, I understand that I need to fix this. I know exactly what I need to do to get my life back on track, I want to do those things and yet I don't do anything. and then when I do something that I shouldn't I know the entire time that I shouldn't do it and will talk myself out of it in my head while I do it. I'm beginning to think the body and mind are separate and the body controls itself and the mind is just along for the ride trying to make sense of it all, fooling itself into believing that it's in control. anybody else get this?

2 Name: Jeisu : 2017-01-31 05:39 ID:sdWiujjs [Del]

You're not the only one, I get that feeling too. It's like losing all your will to do anything. Also the part about you knowing you shouldn't but you can't help it anyways. The most you can do is to try and avoid it desperately. It helps if you have like an aspiration to work towards, something that will really motivate you. It'll take time but you'll get there. (I found my motivation after 2 years haha)

3 Name: Youdi : 2017-02-01 21:24 ID:6B6u/lzk [Del]

I have this feeling all the time, i'm experiencing it right now even. I suppose it's because I do not realize the importance of things. I'm in university (taking engineering) and I realized that I do not study, nor do I have the feeling that I need to. I know that if I fail I will be kicked out but I simply cannot bring myself to do it. I think that the first step in solving this is to realize that you are more important than you think and that you should start to see the importance if other things as well. I will be actively implementing these into my life in hopes of fixing it. Just keep pushing and don't let yourself become your own worst enemy by slowing yourself down. I need that motivation, and quick :'(

4 Name: SolidusSnake92 : 2017-02-03 23:04 ID:hPzK/hsK [Del]

Shit I was in the same situation but I have to work on motivating myself.

5 Name: Archos Militarus : 2017-02-04 00:23 ID:Cott9uH5 [Del]

The same thing happens to me. I usually focus my thoughts entirely to one task at a time, and force myself to accomplishing constructive goals and being generally productive. I also try to eliminate all outside noises and visual distractions if it is feasible to do so. As for the lack of motivation, That is something that I still deal with. In order for me to deal with this, I essentially trick myself into thinking that every thing that I need to do is interesting. It's difficult to explain, and I may have confused you, but I felt the need to give my advice regardless. I hope that my comment has been useful.