I am arrogant, and I have been told that I am arrogant. It's something I've never known how to stop. In most situations, I'll use my default funny personality, but once after this happened, I was told I sounded arrogant. And I realise that it's true. I say things I don't mean to and they sound rude, or cynical, or arrogant, if self centred. The thing is, I have no idea how to stop this from happening. I have not the slightest clue of how to change my personality. My friends are all really perceptive - I once badly hurt my lip, tried to act normal, and one picked up in the fact I wasn't acting like my usual self. Apparently I come off as aggressive when I stay quiet around people. I heard it yesterday. Please help.

dw bout it man personalities r smt we grow into whether we hate it or not, i definitely hate the personalities of ppl around me, especially teachrs and other students/friends. for sure we can change our own personalities n habits n what not but ay who gives a shit? if someone doesnt like ur personality its their fuckn problem. and if u dont like someone elses, dont fuck wit them. or get used to it. or try to act just like them so they get a feel of what ppl aroud them would think of themselves. same for ur own, try acting like someone else. uk what i mean?

I don't feel like you should really change yourself completely or anything like that, just try maybe think more before you say or do things? Sort of put yourself in your friends shoes for a little bit and think about what they'd make of the situation if you do certain things. And if you do cross a line or something, then at least make sure to apologize to whoever you hurt. Make them aware that you feel bad about it, you know?