I've known this person for two years,and we were best friends. Recently, our relationship began to deteriorate, around late November, and I blame myself for it. The problem is, we only speak online, and due to her literally putting my name online, which I keep private, and mentioning my username, I was forced to change it and mute her. I don't know if I should try to fix this, and if I should, how do I do that?

1. So if I understood the situation well, you did something (which you have yet to explain) to your friend, and in retaliation or by accident, they have posted your name?

2. There is a clear breach of privacy on her part, but would you find it in yourself to forgive her/make amends? On the other hand, have you taken steps prior to the incident to improve your "deteriorating relationship"?

3. Do you think your friendship is worth the effort? If not, then have you thought of what you can do to move on?

First talk this out? I mean ignoring would be dreadful feeling to the other party and to you also from what it sounds.

Also having a hard time thinking if its him doing searches for you with your names or if it went out with posting like blackmail. Striping ones identiry naked on the net. One is to expose and the other one is to track down... If its track down talk.

If its blackmail... No idea. Talk a bit but be ready to cut ties.