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Help with how to deal with loss? (3)

1 Name: Aki : 2016-12-18 03:44 ID:pqYEt0QM [Del]

Hi Dollars,
Last week my good friend committed suicide and I was the last person he talked too. Due to this I have been having feelings of guilt and I haven't attended my college since. I'm finding this very difficult to deal with and I was wondering if anyone who has been through this before could share some advice? Even if you haven't, advice is greatly appreciated.
Thank you.

2 Name: Devil's Counsellor : 2016-12-18 04:56 ID:zuM2BM43 [Del]

I'm sorry to hear what happened.

But honestly, I don't believe there is any real good advice on how to cope with these things. Everyone deals with these kinds of things differently, and it's going to take a while for you two even start feeling a little better. I know that pretty much everyone says this and I didn't believe it at first either, but it will get better over time. However you decide to cope with it, just know that it will take a while.

With regards to your college, I'd recommend that you take a semester off if that is possible? Or maybe at the least take fewer courses? It could affect your grades, so I think it'd be best to take more time off for yourself.

I wish you the best of luck.

3 Name: Anri : 2016-12-18 05:49 ID:10t5zM/6 [Del]

I'm very sorry for what happened to you ... but you can not do anything with this feeling but it softens over time and you get used to it ... you just have to be strong and resist