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Feelings Clear (9)

1 Name: Tsuki : 2016-11-22 21:48 ID:dWWqs1Tp [Del]

I like these two guys and I don't know whether I actually like them and I'm not sure which one I actually like or I just like them as a friend. Please help me figure out these feelings. They are bothering me so much >_<

2 Name: Tsuki : 2016-11-22 21:52 ID:dWWqs1Tp [Del]

This is bothering me so much I meant

3 Name: ImYourFriend : 2016-11-23 01:18 ID:9MBK/3e5 [Del]

You might try to confess to them, not the I love you, but the
'Um... I like you' <This one XD. Hmm if the 'chosen one' accepts, you can start ^.^
Of you have any problems,
Kik: BooWD
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I'll be your friend XD. I can help you, although i think my advices' aren't good *Apologetic Face*

4 Name: Shiro : 2016-11-23 14:42 ID:dWWqs1Tp [Del]

>>3 I think your advice is quite a good one, but if she confesses to them then wouldn't it be quite awkward for her, only saying this from personally experience no hate. Might I ask you for advice if you don't mind, what if the other person you confess to is very awkward to you after you are done confessing what would you do or are you supposed to do?

5 Name: ImYourFriend : 2016-11-24 01:26 ID:9MBK/3e5 [Del]

Hmm. If the other person feels awkward, then you confess to the other guy. Then if you succeed, you can tell the first person that you no longer feel like that anymore because you already got a boyfriend. And also ask the first person if you can still stay friends with him (Only if you want to stay friends with him though)

6 Name: Anti-Rainbow : 2016-11-24 23:10 ID:D3aqFfwl [Del]

Well it depends on which guy you fell in love with first cuz if you really liked the first guy then you wouldn't have fallen for the second one.But this is your choice so just love the guy you feel most comfortable with.

7 Name: ImYourPal : 2016-11-25 08:03 ID:M+2Z3/jD [Del]

I agree with Anti Rainbow XD

8 Name: Someone!1z8qrtCRGc : 2016-11-25 17:46 ID:/cp/PbZG [Del]

Which guy you liked first is irrelevant because it is entirely plausible for you to be attracted to more than one person at a time (be it platonically, romantically, aesthetically, sensually or etc)

My opinion is that your decision will depend entirely on your level of maturity, your idea of a platonic/romantic relationship and your hypothetical level of commitment to a change in relationship.

Here are some questions you should ask yourself:

Do you value both people equally? In what way?
(For example, you might value one's wittyness and the other's friendliness. You might or might not find their presence to be a huge boon to your daily life. You might like working with one of them more than the other.)

Do you think you would like to change the way you are currently interacting with either/both of them?

Would it matter if they do not agree with you (as in, they might or might not want any change at all)?

If you really want to change your current relationship with either/both of them, what would that entail? What would change (and for how long)? What would be sacrificed, if anything. Would you find that acceptable? Would you like it to happen? How would you make it happen?

What would make you most happy?
What would make them most happy?

Get the answers for all of the questions above and then decide if you'd like to take any actions.

If you cannot make up your mind, then do nothing and let the things you learn in the future guide you. You can also chose to talk to the involved parties to get a better understanding of what you would be involving yourself with.

Good luck

9 Name: Akako : 2016-11-25 17:50 ID:XAPVd6kM [Del]

basically what >>8 said, its not impossible to like two people at the same time and you should just think about it. Youll eventually figure it out.