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My mom left us... what should i do? (2)

1 Name: Ai : 2016-11-12 14:25 ID:rKqCsioA [Del]

as the title says my mother left us...
My parents always fought but today a few hours ago after they fought my mother changed and went outside... after an hour my father called her to tell her to come back but she won't listen....
afew min ago my big brother called her and she told him that she's not coming back....
and now everything is left to me...
my big brother is like a vase doesn't care about anything....
and my little brother is only 6 and i have no idea how and what to tell him....
i don't know what to do anymore...
i feel that my parents well get divorce soon....
please someone tell me what to do...

2 Name: Noel127!dl6f4LGQew : 2016-11-12 15:02 ID:e6p1Y4os [Del]

I am sorry to hear that,
I would like to tell you that I have been in your place when I was very much younger and a 4 year old brother.I was the eldest, and things don't get easy. The events changed me mentally, I was in sadness,I do not want it to hurt me anymore and so I automatically lose my feelings. It's bad enough when my parents fought and much terrible when my mother tried to kill herself a number of time.Imagine me as little boy stopping an adult woman. But, you probably know this. You HAVE to BE STRONG . Even, if it hurts .There is not much you can do about your parents. It is the adult problem-Parents, Accept that they themselves need to solve it two of them. Sooner or later they will think about their children. I really have forgotten a lot about what did I do mostly because I have no more interest in what problem they have and more is my feelings. I became focus to my self.
1) be calm and collected,be a good example, try to live independently.
2) have faith in good things , it will come.
3) find things to make you happy,
4) make a bucket list of things you want to in LIFE it helps
5) let it pass through. hold on to your dreams and hope, what happened right now is an episode in your life. a new chapter, you just have to go through it.
there is no short cut in progress.
6) think about yourself and your little brother , think about what you can do to ease things for yourself and him tomorrow or today. and more importantly just rest and sleep. yeah things will pass by in time.
7)Do not lose track of your self , keep doing your usual stuff.
and many more I wish I could help more, but in the end you have to help yourself. You have to find your own way too.
The biggest strength of a person lies in living a happy life no matter what comes in their way and smiling at the saddest parts of life.

Hope it helps,