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please help with friendship and love advice (8)

1 Name: Rather Not Say : 2016-11-07 07:04 ID:cq0ieinX [Del]

I've been here often but i don't have anyone else to ask for help

first of all, i want to be clear and say i'm not looking to talk with e-mails or something,i just would like some advice. sorry

long story short, i feel nervous around my friends and it stresses me out daily so... i would like some new friends, i want to meet someone new, someone who i can feel calm around and who i can hang out with outside school. But i don't know anyone and i don't know how or where to find someone.
I also kinda want a boyfriend, i'm alone most days and it would be nice to have someone to be here for me, and ill be their from him, But again same problem, i don't know anyone i like and i don't know where or how to find someone

I know this sounds really weird but i'm alone most days and would like someone to talk to, and i would happily listen to them.
But also if i leave my friends, How do i do it? its not just one friend and its like a web of friends, if i stop being friends with one, i'll end up losing everyone and becoming a loner
Sorry if this is just a useless thread that i shouldn't put up on the personal thread because it's stupid. But thank you taking your time to read this , and maybe even reply (you don't have to)

2 Name: lewicy : 2016-11-07 09:29 ID:28JnF94J [Del]

You said that you feel nervous around your friends, shouldn't it be the opposite?? Our friends should be people that we can relax with and have a great time. Maybe, try to think about the reasons why you feel nervous/ uncomfortable around them. Perhaps it's something that can be helped.
If you want to meet someone new and you're still at school the best way to do that is just to start going to new places and speak with people. Maybe sign up for some weekend/afternoon courses/activities that run in your area or join a school club. It may not seem easy, but unless you do something new you, won't meet someone new to you :)
Now, about your desire for a boyfriend- I think that you should give up on that at least for now. Boyfriend should be someone special to you, someone you really like not just a person who will comfort you coz you feel lonely, that's a friend's task.
And finally you are probably well aware of it but just to remind- always becareful when you seek help from others in the internet you never know who's on the other side of the screen and what's their intention.
Whoah, I hope that at least a tiny bit of it makes some sense. I believe that you'll find a solution for your problem, one more advice from me 'try to think about everything from more than just point of view, try to see it from a different perspective and analyze it'. Stay strong and good luck :)

3 Name: Frendalle : 2016-11-07 18:54 ID:9hPTCTaZ [Del]

You seem like a very shy and nervous person. My advice find any way to brake out of your shell as soon has possible! But hey, that's just my opinion.

4 Name: Rather Not Say : 2016-11-07 20:52 ID:cq0ieinX [Del]

Thank you for your replies. :) I'll try these out.

5 Name: Dafree : 2016-11-07 21:24 ID:RTehfHUk [Del]

Who cares what everyone else thinks do what you want to do.

6 Name: Bam 25th night : 2016-11-09 15:31 ID:RJAqbx7n [Del]

Please tell me some advice cause im just bone-tired.
I really love this girl and I dont know "Where" or When" to tell her that i want to be more than friends with her. I once tried at the park, when we were lying on ground but saying "I love you" felt like such a heavy caliber. So Instead i said "I like you" She just smiled at me and said "I like you too" and cuddle with me even more. now i dont wanna duck this up. Its been two years since we met and we just kiss on cheeks when saying bye. ITS A PROGRESS, but i feel like..i didnt progress at all. Please tell me the best place where to tell her what i feel. i cant lose the chance i was given...

7 Name: Dafree : 2016-11-09 16:09 ID:RTehfHUk [Del]

WHAT?!?!?!? come on man pull some moves U GOT THIS!!! idk what kind of moves but she obviously feels the same way if shes been sticken around you for 2 years

8 Name: Bam 25th night : 2016-11-09 16:20 ID:RJAqbx7n [Del]

I know but where is the good place to make the move? In the park, cinema, or somewhere else? Im really not good at these things .-.