1 Name: Anonymous : 2016-10-27 05:48 ID:rfayQx18 [Del]
There's this guy who I had fallen in love with. He told me one day that we had a special connection the next day I saw him with another girl and got to watch them kiss. I know it shouldn't bother me, but we've had sex before... Idk wat to do.
2 Name: Nara : 2016-10-27 09:18 ID:KpiuGN5l [Del]
He basically cheated on you. Did it feel like he cheated on you? Where you with him first?
3 Name: Boopwrang !PM7yJG3LAw : 2016-10-27 11:20 ID:Gv33v2oV [Del]
Well was that girl family maybe?Maybe by special connection he means good friends? but he really did cheat, then it's probably best not to stay around him until you get better or make up if you want to.
4 Name: Unknown : 2016-10-28 01:04 ID:M6JTl1ZD [Del]
His not loyal to your love so leave but if you want to follow a one sided love that fine as long as your happy be like haruna niekawa in durarara this forms of twisted love cant be help but if not then just leave make a tough choice be strong and not afraid and say to his face go to hell you piece of shit, this is just hyperbolic dont say that
5 Name: Yeah : 2016-10-29 10:59 ID:T2vUa9Rf [Del]
In my opinion, if it was really special as he said it was he wouldn't be kissing other people which is cheating. In short, life is too short to be with people like him. But, this is your life and your choice. Good luck!
6 Name: Someone!1z8qrtCRGc : 2016-10-29 20:31 ID:MlTbzmAD [Del]
Your problem does not fall in my domain of expertise, but here are some questions which I hope would help you decide what to do:
1. Did you confess to him about your feelings/is he informed of them before the incident?
2. Was that "admission of special connection" of his done seriously or just a casual remark?
3. Are you two close in any way other than physically?
4. Did both of you have an agreement over the nature of your relationship before/after you had sex with one another?
5. Do you wish to change your relationship with him/pursue other ventures? Even after what you saw?
6. Would you welcome the idea of negotiating an open relationship or be willing to accept a cheating partner, if it came to that?
If neither of you agreed to a strictly monogamous relationship nor discussed about your attachments, then it would be quite hard to say that he "cheated" (though he would be considered promiscuous and/or opportunist to the eyes of a third party). In a sense, neither of you owe the another anything, except honesty.
I am terribly sorry for my (inconsiderate) bluntness and hope that you will figure out what to do with relative peace.
Good luck
