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Crushes... (5)

1 Name: Dark Razor : 2016-10-22 18:50 ID:2KXEQzeu [Del]

Five people have a crush on me and only one of them has had the courage to ask me out and I felt horrible turning them down. One of the people who like me is a good friend of mine and they'll always hug me or wrap their arm around me, usually I would be ok with this but the fact that this person has feelings for me makes me feel uncomfortable... I want to talk to them about it but I feel like it'll start something since I usually let others do things like that to me. I usually brush them off and stuff but they don't get that I'm trying to show that I don't want them touching me... I've never had anyone like me before and having five people who like me and only knowing who three of them are is both flattering and really confusing... I'm not sure what to do about my friend or my other friend who I turned down, everything has been so awkward in our friend group because of this, everyone else can see how uncomfortable I am except the people who have a crush on me. I don't know what to do, I don't have any interest to date anyone let alone date my friends, people say I should give dating a try but others said I shouldn't force myself and that " love will come to me" or whatever....

If anyone could give me a little advice about what I should do I would really appreciate it...

2 Name: Ally-chan : 2016-10-22 20:41 ID:fZ0ohTPM [Del]

First off, I'm not an expert but I do know not to say sorry to any of them. A s a heads up I want to tell you this. You should never apologize for your feelings. It's a tough situation to be in but try to stay strong to your feelings

3 Name: Re-Nara : 2016-10-22 22:08 ID:59qUfrK7 [Del]

Just... turn them off soon. For the friendship breaking or not, well it is bad but, it is not your fault. I think, they should think over about your feeling too. They are soo egoist!!! Well, sorry. I dont give any advice.Just wanna tell what i feel while i am read this. (Sorry for bad grammar too :3 )

4 Name: Dark Razor : 2016-10-24 15:42 ID:2KXEQzeu [Del]

Thank you both for your advice

5 Name: Unknown : 2016-10-25 02:30 ID:iOW1iahw [Del]

Just tell them how you feel
But i feel like itll start something since i usually let others do things
Well nothing will happen if you do nothing only relying no hoping that people will help you. The longer it last the more painfull it will be just end it and not be afraid to do so a as I said nothing will happen if you dont do anything