1 Name: SiriamV : 2016-10-22 07:29 ID:ff1AI4mF [Del]
Hey guys,
So I have a crush on this guy from my school, he's my age and we are really good "friends" ( it's ambiguous between us actually). We used to have fun together and to get closer and closer... but I'm really shy and I feel weird when he is around me(maybe that's what we call love... it's the first time for me so it scares me a lot) I feel like melting everytime he looks at me or anything and as I didn't know what to do in front of him, I took distance, ran away not to face him because I know I would lose control! I want to talk with him and to spend time with him so bad but when I see him I act like I didn't see him and I leave... Now I'm afraid to lose him but I can't face him anymore.
Love is such a terrible feeling! I hate when I see him with his friends and I'm just like "Why can he be like that with me?" It hurts very bad I swear...
Can you guys please help me? I don't want to lose him but I can't talk to him about my feelings or anything...
Thanks for reading this (do not have fun of me please...)
2 Name: Sarky !JA7lPOiPVs : 2016-10-22 12:13 ID:mqTV4aWT [Del]
hmmmm...... try psychology to get them to like you more? eg, to do positive things when you're on their left side as to promote positive emotional stimulation in his brain when he sees you, you know; that sort of stuff.
3 Name: builder396 : 2016-10-22 14:50 ID:WDc1Yx37 [Del]
In my limited experience the best way is to find a way to make an offer that has no strings attached, i.e. "I want, so if you want here I am" kind of along those lines, but less direct.
The way I once did it with a girl I was sort of ambiguously close with, she kind of started it by often just holding my hand when we were walking somewhere, which was something I could have declined easily, but I had no reason to, really. At some point we were sharing a few french fries, and I knew we both knew the pocky game where you eat one from both sides until you meet in the middle, so I took a fry between my lips and kind of gave her a "hey" and she took me up on it and it ended in quite a bit of kissing the rest of the day.
Of course it didnt last for anything, when we saw each other next week things were back to friendship. Maybe it was just neither of us taking the initiative because we were waiting for the other. *shrug* being a lesbian is hard.
