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I Don't Know What I Want (2)

1 Name: Honua : 2016-10-19 18:55 ID:TaK0sO87 [Del]

For the past year and a half, I have been boxing it's been the highlight of my day after school. I sacrifice all of my time to practice during the weekdays and even my free time on my summers, and seasonal breaks. I love it to death. But, I also love to sing and dance. Before boxing, I was dedicated to performing. Just yesterday, I visited the chorus room and i felt alive. Before I decided I wanted to start singing,and stuff. I had this depressing feeling that enveloped around me like a huge depressing shadow. I believe it's because I didn't have music in my life. My group and I, have a whole bunch of performances that our old instructor set up for us and it makes me feel amazing. My problem is that I love them both. But, I don't know which one I should commit to. I could do both, but my coach thinks very highly of me and I don't want to let him down or make him think that I am ditching practice. I guess i'm just conflicted -_-'

2 Name: Unknown : 2016-10-20 07:07 ID:ArsLG/ls [Del]

To clear things up you have three choices
-give up singing and continue boxing
-give up boxing and continue singing
-or do both
In option three the stated problem is that your afraid that you wont be able give enough time to both so why dont you learn to manage your time, your coach didn't actually ban you to sing the problem is that you think that you may be ditching him well hell don't think like that I'm sure your coach will respect your decision and as i just said if you want to do both then manage the time to be able to tend to both. Well if thing get hard like your getting sick or too tired that you can't do anything I'm not forcing you to keep managing your time is that you give one up after all you should understand the difference between what you want and need and its clear that if your tired or sick you need rest and eventually crossing out one activity in your schedule so that you can rest.
If you choose to give up one of them make sure you dont regret anything so choose wisely.
The problem here is that you need to choose, take your time no pressure k, but you need to choose in the end of the day