Disagreed with
>>5 Yes Im being just that consistent.
Basically you shouldnt change who you are, even if it is to get liked by everyone else. But, yes but, you should find something that you enjoy, pursue it, and build up your confidence. Dont be afraid of experimenting with who you are to yourself and to others, changing that around a bit and see what works out. The impression you currently give is obviously not the best. Just dont hide who you are, rediscover and/or reinvent it and do it with more confidence.